I just started using Oink and I want to get a good ratio. What do you recommend I do?
I already forwarded my ports and downloaded some newer torrents and leaving them to seed, but I want any other advice from current Oink users.What advice would you get to raise Oink quota?
just keep seeding.
Friday, April 30, 2010
What advice would you give to a 22 year old woman whose partner is confessing to crossdress ?
She is a close friend of mine, being very unhappy at the first moment, but perhaps ready to cope with the problem, looking for more informations and advice.
Sorry, she cannot ask the question herself because she does not write in English.What advice would you give to a 22 year old woman whose partner is confessing to crossdress ?
I'd tell her not to make any hasty decisions or judgements; to learn all she can about crossdressing, and to TALK to her partner, calmly and openly, about what it means to him, or her, and to their relationship.
There's some good basic information here;
http://www.pmpub.com/crossdressingFQA.ht鈥?/a>
which she might find useful.What advice would you give to a 22 year old woman whose partner is confessing to crossdress ?
Though I agree with Valerie in most of her explanations, I think there is a human element she leaves out with her neuroreceptor analogy. Most of us are born with the predisposition due to a hormone wash during gestation which makes it natural not a narcotic.
By partner, I am assuming that they are married. This is no doubt quite a shock to her, and she has every right to be angry. Now she needs to step back and view the situation with this new information in hand.
The cross dressing can be very disturbing to a conservative minded person, and the fact that this has been withheld from her going into the marriaige is a terrible thing to do to someone you purport to love.
If her partner is sincerely sorry about the heartache and grief he has caused by not being upfront with her, then there may be room to salvage this relationship. If the crossdressing is the only flaw in an otherwise great relationship, then she must determine how large of a flaw this is. Is he kind, thoughtful, caring towards her and her feelings? Does he think about her first and show good instincts towards family life? If he's abusive and uncaring and has a few other fatal flaws, then this is just the straw that breaks the camels back
If he is the man she has always desired, then his mistake, not hers, was not trusting the woman he loves with his deepest, most raw secret.
She needs to learn about crossdressing (information, not exposure), what it is and what it is not. Then she needs to decide what level of exposure she is comfortable with and he needs to abide by that level. This is not negotiable at this point, he needs to be respectful of her and show her that he has earned the right, and she has become comfortable with his crossdressing to allow herself more exposure to it.
She may not want him to crossdress around her or thier kids (whether they have them now or later). She may allow him to dress when no one is around or just in the bedroom between the two of them.
This is NOT a slap to her beauty, or a complaint about her femininity. This is NOT her fault, but it is something that she must come to grips with. The man she loves, has a feminine side that he expresses through dressing. As long as he understands HER feelings and needs, this does not need to be a make or break situation.
Tell her that most crossdressers are straight heterosexual men with one little kink. Their brains are hard-wired such that it releases serotonin and other neurotransmitters when they crossdress. This gives them a sensation of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. It also affects the reward center of their brains, so it mimics an addiction reaction.
Crossdressing can become a serious problem in a marriage. In order for the marriage to continue happily then the partners need to be prepared to make some compromises. They need to recognize each others needs. He has a need to crossdress, she has a need to be loved by a man. He has to recognize that she is the most important thing in his life. His wife is more important to him than his crossdressing habit.
She needs to prepare a list of rules that she can tolerate. He needs to understand that he needs to place limits on his crossdressing. She may insist that the crossdressing be kept private, not before friends, family or children. She may also insist that the crossdressing be kept out of their intimate times, after all it is a real turn-off for her. Other rules may include frequency, times, or styles, (nothing vile, sexy, or disgusting) keep it in good tastes. In any case, they need to work on the rules together and be prepared to make compromises. She should try to learn as much about crossdressing as she can. Where possible she should help him with his feminine style and look.
Tell her to take self-defense classes and learn to protect herself. Seriously, that's one of the best things ANY person can do... Cross-dressers are frequent targets of violence, so every little bit helps.
Other than that, give her a hug, tell her to stay strong and never give up on who she really, no matter what other people might say.
Good luck.
First of all, I would advise her to not view this as a ';problem'; that she needs to ';cope'; with. This is really an opportunity for her and her partner to become closer. It's very difficult for many men and women to ever truly be both ';friends'; and lovers. But the fact that her partner is a crossdresser gives them an opportunity to add an extra dimension to their relationship, with a mutual interest in apparel and possibly makeup, jewelry, etc.
Tell her to explore and enjoy.
to confess to cross-dress is believe that wrong thing (from religious view) shouldn't happen. Ask him if he thinks that your relation is a mistake which should stop. If so; it's your decision to break. otherwise don't worry
I think,,no big deal,, crossdressers are usually straight men,,so it doesn't mean he is gay or bi,,just means that somewhere in his mind of likes and dislikes ,,he enjoys things that are usually meant for women to wear,, if she loves him,, just go with it,, this isn't the dark ages,, let him express himself openly,,if she doesn't he will just hide it . What happens in private is no ones business. Tell her to try to have fun with it,,and maybe both will enjoy each others fantasies.
goodluck,,
There's nothing wrong with cross-dressing. It does not hurt anyone, it does not cause any harm. Why should she worry?
well being the crossdresser in the relationship, i can say that i have had no luck at all, any woman i have been with long enough to trust with that information has pretty much just freaked out, called me some nasty names and left. so my first advise would be to avoid doing any of those things. frankly i don't see why it is that big of a deal women crossdress all the time and nobody say squat to them. and it would seem to me that women would like a guy that likes to shop, and do other girly things. lastly most crossdressers are not gay we just like your clothes.
Tell your friend to look past the crossdressing, Think of why they were together in the first place. Does he still have the qualities that attracted her. Learn why he does it. I had a boyfrend who crossdressed, he was a good guy and could pass as an attractive woman. We had alot of fun. Plus its always nice to have someone around who can tell you how your makeup looks. Just remember he needs his fem time and your friend will need his manly time there needs to be balance
To begin with she should be flattered that he trusts her enough to tell her.
There are many reasons why a guy does this. It could be he gets a sexual thrill from it and would dress for sex.
It could be that being feminine is a release from the pressures of masculine life.
It can also be because there is more choice in female clothing and it feels good.
He may on the other hand be transgendered. If this is the case and he tells her then that is a different situation.
She needs to understand that there is often a transition period for guys who cross dress. The more they do it often the more they need to do it. Then going out will be the next stage. Not all men who dress as a girl in public are transgendered.
He may not understand why he wants to do it until he has been there.
It's harmless, and it's private. She should not be telling anyone about it, because that will only embarrass him. Tell her to get over it.
if she love him , its a samll thing
If her partner loves her, then he's probably just a transvestite.
The difference between a transvestite and a drag queen is orientation. He's probably just a transvestite and is nothing to worry about.
He's probably just enamored by all that is femanine.
I know it's weird, but it's really nothing to worry about.
Sorry, she cannot ask the question herself because she does not write in English.What advice would you give to a 22 year old woman whose partner is confessing to crossdress ?
I'd tell her not to make any hasty decisions or judgements; to learn all she can about crossdressing, and to TALK to her partner, calmly and openly, about what it means to him, or her, and to their relationship.
There's some good basic information here;
http://www.pmpub.com/crossdressingFQA.ht鈥?/a>
which she might find useful.What advice would you give to a 22 year old woman whose partner is confessing to crossdress ?
Though I agree with Valerie in most of her explanations, I think there is a human element she leaves out with her neuroreceptor analogy. Most of us are born with the predisposition due to a hormone wash during gestation which makes it natural not a narcotic.
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By partner, I am assuming that they are married. This is no doubt quite a shock to her, and she has every right to be angry. Now she needs to step back and view the situation with this new information in hand.
The cross dressing can be very disturbing to a conservative minded person, and the fact that this has been withheld from her going into the marriaige is a terrible thing to do to someone you purport to love.
If her partner is sincerely sorry about the heartache and grief he has caused by not being upfront with her, then there may be room to salvage this relationship. If the crossdressing is the only flaw in an otherwise great relationship, then she must determine how large of a flaw this is. Is he kind, thoughtful, caring towards her and her feelings? Does he think about her first and show good instincts towards family life? If he's abusive and uncaring and has a few other fatal flaws, then this is just the straw that breaks the camels back
If he is the man she has always desired, then his mistake, not hers, was not trusting the woman he loves with his deepest, most raw secret.
She needs to learn about crossdressing (information, not exposure), what it is and what it is not. Then she needs to decide what level of exposure she is comfortable with and he needs to abide by that level. This is not negotiable at this point, he needs to be respectful of her and show her that he has earned the right, and she has become comfortable with his crossdressing to allow herself more exposure to it.
She may not want him to crossdress around her or thier kids (whether they have them now or later). She may allow him to dress when no one is around or just in the bedroom between the two of them.
This is NOT a slap to her beauty, or a complaint about her femininity. This is NOT her fault, but it is something that she must come to grips with. The man she loves, has a feminine side that he expresses through dressing. As long as he understands HER feelings and needs, this does not need to be a make or break situation.
Tell her that most crossdressers are straight heterosexual men with one little kink. Their brains are hard-wired such that it releases serotonin and other neurotransmitters when they crossdress. This gives them a sensation of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. It also affects the reward center of their brains, so it mimics an addiction reaction.
Crossdressing can become a serious problem in a marriage. In order for the marriage to continue happily then the partners need to be prepared to make some compromises. They need to recognize each others needs. He has a need to crossdress, she has a need to be loved by a man. He has to recognize that she is the most important thing in his life. His wife is more important to him than his crossdressing habit.
She needs to prepare a list of rules that she can tolerate. He needs to understand that he needs to place limits on his crossdressing. She may insist that the crossdressing be kept private, not before friends, family or children. She may also insist that the crossdressing be kept out of their intimate times, after all it is a real turn-off for her. Other rules may include frequency, times, or styles, (nothing vile, sexy, or disgusting) keep it in good tastes. In any case, they need to work on the rules together and be prepared to make compromises. She should try to learn as much about crossdressing as she can. Where possible she should help him with his feminine style and look.
Tell her to take self-defense classes and learn to protect herself. Seriously, that's one of the best things ANY person can do... Cross-dressers are frequent targets of violence, so every little bit helps.
Other than that, give her a hug, tell her to stay strong and never give up on who she really, no matter what other people might say.
Good luck.
First of all, I would advise her to not view this as a ';problem'; that she needs to ';cope'; with. This is really an opportunity for her and her partner to become closer. It's very difficult for many men and women to ever truly be both ';friends'; and lovers. But the fact that her partner is a crossdresser gives them an opportunity to add an extra dimension to their relationship, with a mutual interest in apparel and possibly makeup, jewelry, etc.
Tell her to explore and enjoy.
to confess to cross-dress is believe that wrong thing (from religious view) shouldn't happen. Ask him if he thinks that your relation is a mistake which should stop. If so; it's your decision to break. otherwise don't worry
I think,,no big deal,, crossdressers are usually straight men,,so it doesn't mean he is gay or bi,,just means that somewhere in his mind of likes and dislikes ,,he enjoys things that are usually meant for women to wear,, if she loves him,, just go with it,, this isn't the dark ages,, let him express himself openly,,if she doesn't he will just hide it . What happens in private is no ones business. Tell her to try to have fun with it,,and maybe both will enjoy each others fantasies.
goodluck,,
There's nothing wrong with cross-dressing. It does not hurt anyone, it does not cause any harm. Why should she worry?
well being the crossdresser in the relationship, i can say that i have had no luck at all, any woman i have been with long enough to trust with that information has pretty much just freaked out, called me some nasty names and left. so my first advise would be to avoid doing any of those things. frankly i don't see why it is that big of a deal women crossdress all the time and nobody say squat to them. and it would seem to me that women would like a guy that likes to shop, and do other girly things. lastly most crossdressers are not gay we just like your clothes.
Tell your friend to look past the crossdressing, Think of why they were together in the first place. Does he still have the qualities that attracted her. Learn why he does it. I had a boyfrend who crossdressed, he was a good guy and could pass as an attractive woman. We had alot of fun. Plus its always nice to have someone around who can tell you how your makeup looks. Just remember he needs his fem time and your friend will need his manly time there needs to be balance
To begin with she should be flattered that he trusts her enough to tell her.
There are many reasons why a guy does this. It could be he gets a sexual thrill from it and would dress for sex.
It could be that being feminine is a release from the pressures of masculine life.
It can also be because there is more choice in female clothing and it feels good.
He may on the other hand be transgendered. If this is the case and he tells her then that is a different situation.
She needs to understand that there is often a transition period for guys who cross dress. The more they do it often the more they need to do it. Then going out will be the next stage. Not all men who dress as a girl in public are transgendered.
He may not understand why he wants to do it until he has been there.
It's harmless, and it's private. She should not be telling anyone about it, because that will only embarrass him. Tell her to get over it.
if she love him , its a samll thing
If her partner loves her, then he's probably just a transvestite.
The difference between a transvestite and a drag queen is orientation. He's probably just a transvestite and is nothing to worry about.
He's probably just enamored by all that is femanine.
I know it's weird, but it's really nothing to worry about.
Need girl advice: Another girl checking out your man and ignoring you, what would you do?
What would you do if this girl (you don't know her from before) at an event shows your man a lot of attention and eye contact but totally ignoring you. Let's say your hubby does not pay her so much attention. Do you get bothered by her ignoring you and hunting for your man? Is there anything one can do?
What do you usually do?Need girl advice: Another girl checking out your man and ignoring you, what would you do?
Oh oh... sounds like I hear a very very jealous girl asking this question. Girl, I'm a guy, but I understand how you feel and what you're really feeling is called, ';Insecurity.';
My advice, let it go. Have faith and trust in your hubby who is only with you and ONLY you. You will know if he is faithful too... depending on how much he trusts you.
There's nothing you can do but learn to control your 'emotional jealousy'. Usually, as human beings, our emotions get the best of us. I think that's what you're going through. Don't get second thoughts about what this girl is going to do. Don't be overprotective with your hubby by snarling and hissing at this girl.
Trust me, if everything falls into place, then your hubby knows he only loves you.Need girl advice: Another girl checking out your man and ignoring you, what would you do?
some girls are totally sl*ts..
they don't care about that a man is still in relation and doesn't seem single..
they know the eye game..
and they can seek attention of your man..
and of course, she will ignore you..
what you can do is..
stay close to your man..
and don't let him see here and there..
be so much funny and attention seeking that he didn't even bothered to see here and there..
look dear, sl*ts are everywhere..
you have to save you man and your relationship from them
Good Luck
:)
I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me. My husband is pretty good looking. There have been a couple of times that we've gone to this one restaraunt and the waitress (that somehow always ends up with our table) will completely ignore me, tough my husband, and only get his order. He has to order for ME.
Here's what I did: Just pretend that YOU don't notice her and each time she ';interrupts';, don't act like it's a big deal. I actually told my hubby that I found it ';flattering'; and that won me more brownie points for not being a jealous shrew. Just let it roll, you know who he's going home with!
First of all he is not ';your'; man he is ';a'; man. Stop being so possessive.
Secondly, he loves you enough to put a ring on your finger, not just his finger in your ring.
Be confident in that love, and if some girl is interested in him, just be proud he still looks good enough to get new attention. You must be with a hottie, so congratulations.
well this type of thing pulled a bunch of my Friends apart,
first find out a little bit about her, she might just be a very friendly (whore-ish), girl(what happened in my experience)
if not dont make a big deal of it because you will come off as looking controlling and jealous.
just make shure he doesnt pay TOO much attention back to her and you should be ok
hope this helps
-Howard
I would SNAP!!!! I would make myself be heard.
And if she kept it up, I'd take her *** outside. ***** can look @ my fist in her eye or my boot in her face. that's just me.
you gotta stand up for yourself, claim what's yours
id be bothered by it just tell her to back off
You can't start fights just becuz someone looked , stared or said ';hi'; with a smile to your hubby.
If they are doing something you can step in
hell yeah i would be bothered. not because she's ignoring him byt because she obviously likes him. Throw her an evil look !!!!!!
~ Kiss my husband while she is trying to flirt (so she is sure he is with someone) then ignore it. Take it as a compliment. ~
if my boyfriend was buying her flirtyness I could kick both of their butts
If he isn't and takes no notice, I would leave her alone :)
WHEN SHES AROUND BE EXTRA LOVING TO UR MAN LET THE ***** KNO HES MINES AND HES OFF LIMITS
Do NOTHING, self confidence is the best revenge :)
punch the ***** in the face
tell her that your man aint interested in a slut like her,n tell her to beat it
well from what you said yes i would be annoyed! just tell her to back off
ur husband should ignore her... and walk away
Never paly a game when u are not sure how to..
What do you usually do?Need girl advice: Another girl checking out your man and ignoring you, what would you do?
Oh oh... sounds like I hear a very very jealous girl asking this question. Girl, I'm a guy, but I understand how you feel and what you're really feeling is called, ';Insecurity.';
My advice, let it go. Have faith and trust in your hubby who is only with you and ONLY you. You will know if he is faithful too... depending on how much he trusts you.
There's nothing you can do but learn to control your 'emotional jealousy'. Usually, as human beings, our emotions get the best of us. I think that's what you're going through. Don't get second thoughts about what this girl is going to do. Don't be overprotective with your hubby by snarling and hissing at this girl.
Trust me, if everything falls into place, then your hubby knows he only loves you.Need girl advice: Another girl checking out your man and ignoring you, what would you do?
some girls are totally sl*ts..
they don't care about that a man is still in relation and doesn't seem single..
they know the eye game..
and they can seek attention of your man..
and of course, she will ignore you..
what you can do is..
stay close to your man..
and don't let him see here and there..
be so much funny and attention seeking that he didn't even bothered to see here and there..
look dear, sl*ts are everywhere..
you have to save you man and your relationship from them
Good Luck
:)
I can't tell you how many times this has happened to me. My husband is pretty good looking. There have been a couple of times that we've gone to this one restaraunt and the waitress (that somehow always ends up with our table) will completely ignore me, tough my husband, and only get his order. He has to order for ME.
Here's what I did: Just pretend that YOU don't notice her and each time she ';interrupts';, don't act like it's a big deal. I actually told my hubby that I found it ';flattering'; and that won me more brownie points for not being a jealous shrew. Just let it roll, you know who he's going home with!
First of all he is not ';your'; man he is ';a'; man. Stop being so possessive.
Secondly, he loves you enough to put a ring on your finger, not just his finger in your ring.
Be confident in that love, and if some girl is interested in him, just be proud he still looks good enough to get new attention. You must be with a hottie, so congratulations.
well this type of thing pulled a bunch of my Friends apart,
first find out a little bit about her, she might just be a very friendly (whore-ish), girl(what happened in my experience)
if not dont make a big deal of it because you will come off as looking controlling and jealous.
just make shure he doesnt pay TOO much attention back to her and you should be ok
hope this helps
-Howard
I would SNAP!!!! I would make myself be heard.
And if she kept it up, I'd take her *** outside. ***** can look @ my fist in her eye or my boot in her face. that's just me.
you gotta stand up for yourself, claim what's yours
id be bothered by it just tell her to back off
You can't start fights just becuz someone looked , stared or said ';hi'; with a smile to your hubby.
If they are doing something you can step in
hell yeah i would be bothered. not because she's ignoring him byt because she obviously likes him. Throw her an evil look !!!!!!
~ Kiss my husband while she is trying to flirt (so she is sure he is with someone) then ignore it. Take it as a compliment. ~
if my boyfriend was buying her flirtyness I could kick both of their butts
If he isn't and takes no notice, I would leave her alone :)
WHEN SHES AROUND BE EXTRA LOVING TO UR MAN LET THE ***** KNO HES MINES AND HES OFF LIMITS
Do NOTHING, self confidence is the best revenge :)
punch the ***** in the face
tell her that your man aint interested in a slut like her,n tell her to beat it
well from what you said yes i would be annoyed! just tell her to back off
ur husband should ignore her... and walk away
Never paly a game when u are not sure how to..
I'm going to study abroad this semester and I would like to know if you have any advice or tips?
How will your Semester at Sea voyage create (or enhance) your personal global perspective? Highlight your discussion by referencing at least one country on your itinerary and by explaining how your time there will further develop your awareness.
What are your academic goals, and how will Semester at Sea help you to you achieve them? Include at least two examples.I'm going to study abroad this semester and I would like to know if you have any advice or tips?
Hey,
Although I shouldn't be doing your homework for you here's some ideas, lol. Venturing abroad to study allows you as an individual to obtain an international perspective on society. It allows you to view various cultures around the world through cultural relativism (meaning for what they are worth), rather then through an ethnocentric mindset. You're able to witness and understand foreign education and the importance of certain civic issues. Certain cities such as London, the largest in most populated in Europe, is the epitome of a melting pot, with numerous individuals coming from different religions and cultural backgrounds. This immediate surrounding enables you to develop your awareness of these people and so forth.
Hope this helps!I'm going to study abroad this semester and I would like to know if you have any advice or tips?
It looks like you need help writing a paper to be accepted to a semester at sea program, not tips about what to expect. That's ok, but be upfront about it.
What are your academic goals, and how will Semester at Sea help you to you achieve them? Include at least two examples.I'm going to study abroad this semester and I would like to know if you have any advice or tips?
Hey,
Although I shouldn't be doing your homework for you here's some ideas, lol. Venturing abroad to study allows you as an individual to obtain an international perspective on society. It allows you to view various cultures around the world through cultural relativism (meaning for what they are worth), rather then through an ethnocentric mindset. You're able to witness and understand foreign education and the importance of certain civic issues. Certain cities such as London, the largest in most populated in Europe, is the epitome of a melting pot, with numerous individuals coming from different religions and cultural backgrounds. This immediate surrounding enables you to develop your awareness of these people and so forth.
Hope this helps!I'm going to study abroad this semester and I would like to know if you have any advice or tips?
It looks like you need help writing a paper to be accepted to a semester at sea program, not tips about what to expect. That's ok, but be upfront about it.
How do you feel about your divorce, and what advice would you give?
For example, is there anything you wish you had done differently at all?How do you feel about your divorce, and what advice would you give?
Don't get Married for a Kid =) young%26amp;dumb...
My son is happy.
Her and I get along way better when I only see her a few times a week
=)How do you feel about your divorce, and what advice would you give?
It's not the answer to somethings and yet it maybe the answer to everything. One should really think about this before you sign the paper to go through with it. Never make a snap choice think it through when you have children that will be affected by it. If you really can't seem to make things work and you have tried for a period of time. You may find yourself sitting in front of an attorney. The real difference for women are by they time they are in front of that attorney she has already accepted the fact the marriage is over. The man on the other hand will feel it as the marriage is final and over he will start to feel the loss. Never talk down the mate who has left and your children will have an easier time of it. If you talk down the mate your children will lean to that mate because he feels you are being mean to that mate. Sometimes the marriage ends out no caring for each other, its no one fault and no one should be guilty. It happens., its hard on kids so be careful of how you handle it.
nope, not really, I wouldn't change much.
advice: be fair, don't use it as a forum to get back at each other, you should both move on with your lives , and you can't do that while you're stabbing each other in the back.
Take what you brought into it and split what you got together. If it was a 1 income household, sit down and figure out how to get the other to the point where they can maintain a household on their own (be that , school, alimony, getting a job,new career whatever..be creative if you have to). But be fair.
Do not , under any circumstances , no matter what..use your kids as pawns or even use them as counsellors..they do not need to hear that crap! I don't care what your ex did, does,etc. doesn't matter. it's still their mom or dad.
Do talk to them and get them counselling if they need it, and have a united front for them. Don't put them in the middle of any fights!
My divorce caused my downfall even after I remarried. I became emotionally lonely and have low self esteem and not 'myself ' anymore till now.
I should have gone to a counsellor..and forgiven him even there were lots of his doings were unforgivable.
My advise:
Think of his ';possitives';, forgive him and go to a marriage counsellor together. ';Never say never';. Try all avenues first.
sweetie if i had it to do all over again i would never have done it, i had a really good wife and mother of my kids, i threw 23 yrs right out the window, but i didnt see it that way then, so im sitting here all alone, and let me tell u it gets lonley, i have dated but the women are not interested in love anymore, they all want to have a relationship thats open, to where they can come and go with whomever they chose, my advise is to work it out if possible, make the changes u have to and accept the ones that caint be changed as long as they are not like cheating and lieing, it comes back home to u later on, and hits u pretty hard, and by then its to late
I wish I had hunted him and his play toy down and beat both their a@@@..Regret that. .threw 20 years of marriage down the toliet..I wish I had set his new car on fire..there I feel better...
Now, 27 years later, I wish I would have known about Bird Nest custody.preventing blackheads
Don't get Married for a Kid =) young%26amp;dumb...
My son is happy.
Her and I get along way better when I only see her a few times a week
=)How do you feel about your divorce, and what advice would you give?
It's not the answer to somethings and yet it maybe the answer to everything. One should really think about this before you sign the paper to go through with it. Never make a snap choice think it through when you have children that will be affected by it. If you really can't seem to make things work and you have tried for a period of time. You may find yourself sitting in front of an attorney. The real difference for women are by they time they are in front of that attorney she has already accepted the fact the marriage is over. The man on the other hand will feel it as the marriage is final and over he will start to feel the loss. Never talk down the mate who has left and your children will have an easier time of it. If you talk down the mate your children will lean to that mate because he feels you are being mean to that mate. Sometimes the marriage ends out no caring for each other, its no one fault and no one should be guilty. It happens., its hard on kids so be careful of how you handle it.
nope, not really, I wouldn't change much.
advice: be fair, don't use it as a forum to get back at each other, you should both move on with your lives , and you can't do that while you're stabbing each other in the back.
Take what you brought into it and split what you got together. If it was a 1 income household, sit down and figure out how to get the other to the point where they can maintain a household on their own (be that , school, alimony, getting a job,new career whatever..be creative if you have to). But be fair.
Do not , under any circumstances , no matter what..use your kids as pawns or even use them as counsellors..they do not need to hear that crap! I don't care what your ex did, does,etc. doesn't matter. it's still their mom or dad.
Do talk to them and get them counselling if they need it, and have a united front for them. Don't put them in the middle of any fights!
My divorce caused my downfall even after I remarried. I became emotionally lonely and have low self esteem and not 'myself ' anymore till now.
I should have gone to a counsellor..and forgiven him even there were lots of his doings were unforgivable.
My advise:
Think of his ';possitives';, forgive him and go to a marriage counsellor together. ';Never say never';. Try all avenues first.
sweetie if i had it to do all over again i would never have done it, i had a really good wife and mother of my kids, i threw 23 yrs right out the window, but i didnt see it that way then, so im sitting here all alone, and let me tell u it gets lonley, i have dated but the women are not interested in love anymore, they all want to have a relationship thats open, to where they can come and go with whomever they chose, my advise is to work it out if possible, make the changes u have to and accept the ones that caint be changed as long as they are not like cheating and lieing, it comes back home to u later on, and hits u pretty hard, and by then its to late
I wish I had hunted him and his play toy down and beat both their a@@@..Regret that. .threw 20 years of marriage down the toliet..I wish I had set his new car on fire..there I feel better...
Now, 27 years later, I wish I would have known about Bird Nest custody.
Is good advice confirmation of what you already know?
The question applies to the question.Is good advice confirmation of what you already know?
good advice might be confirmation of what you already know...
just a different way of approaching a situation.
or good advice can sometimes present a new way of looking at a situation that you might not have thought of.
good advice should always be positive and beneficial to you.
good advice might be confirmation of what you already know...
just a different way of approaching a situation.
or good advice can sometimes present a new way of looking at a situation that you might not have thought of.
good advice should always be positive and beneficial to you.
What is the best design for this organization you advice ?
I constructed my small business company, and now I am designing the internal system of it... Please advice me with the best model for an export based company, starting up....including a breif job description ..What is the best design for this organization you advice ?
Sorry have no ideal, wish I could help.
Sorry have no ideal, wish I could help.
What relevant advice would you give to a tradesperson, tenant and property owner?
in relation to a fire in the kitchen?What relevant advice would you give to a tradesperson, tenant and property owner?
We need more info here: It all depends on if the tenant caused it or not. If the tenant had renters insurance or not. How bad was the fire?What relevant advice would you give to a tradesperson, tenant and property owner?
Did the tenant not have renter's insurance? I pity him if he did not.
We need more info here: It all depends on if the tenant caused it or not. If the tenant had renters insurance or not. How bad was the fire?What relevant advice would you give to a tradesperson, tenant and property owner?
Did the tenant not have renter's insurance? I pity him if he did not.
I Need Advice About Getting My Azzzz Pierced ? How Big of An Azzzz Ring Do You Recommend ?
One small enough to be placed in the proper location so that when manipulated, it does some good in terms of elevating your feelings, and big enough to reach two different locations. I will let you use your delightfully disgusting imagination.
:D
:D
What have you learned about life so far? What advice can you give everyone?
I believe that each and every human being has a story worth telling. I would like to hear yours.What have you learned about life so far? What advice can you give everyone?
I have learned that there is no forever, so a person has to be ready to adapt to change. Life is all about changes. The better a person is able to ';go with the flow';, the better they will be able to live a happy life.What have you learned about life so far? What advice can you give everyone?
Never forget that everyone is on this planet doing the same thing that you are... living. Almost every human desires the same thing... happiness, the ability to live freely, the basic necessities to survive and some space to be individuals. Learn to put yourself in another persons shoes and realize how similar we all really are.
i learnt never to trust no one.
EVERYONE ive ever known has screwed me over. so it taught me to ONLY rely upon myself.
What I have learned from life is just when you think you have it all figured out, life throws you a sucker punch. The best advice I have got is keep your head up, and your nose to the grind stone. Happiness is how you look at your situation not what you do or did. Example say you got lost your job, then that wish that you had nothing to do just came true. So learn to laugh at the irony of life, but don't stop living it just go where it takes you. Do the best you can, regardless of what others think ';your best'; is always good enough, the only person you have to beat is yourself.
i have learnt dat life is an exam we have 2 pass and we wil get reward in da form of heaven or hell! basically i advise all to dun trust any1 coz every1 is so selfish and will consider u after their own preferences! u come in dis world alone n u have to leave it alone! believe in god! and live fairly!
It is still being written, and I take as many notes as possible.
In life there are spaces for many things, they move and move you. they are alive with mysteries , they are fragile and they become strong, they are foundational in many forms. being touched and touching the elements are in itself, the introduction to all that I can hope to know.
As each year passes I discover that there is so much to learn in life.When I was a teen life seemed to revolve around myself and my immediate circle of friends and family. When I went to college I met a lot of different and fascinating people. At the age of 21 I found myself wanting to learn about everything I could possibly learn in one lifetime. People and different cultures are so interesting and yet basically at the core so similar.
I traveled to a few foreign countries when I was 22 and met even MORE different and fascinating people I constantly read and try to learn about current events and historical events as well.
I moved from the south to Minnesota when I was 25 and learned that even in America there are cultural differences by region and now when I talk to friends and family from back home they can hear the change in my accent and way of life.
The most important thing I have learned over 29 years of life is to stop judging and start living.
No one is better than anyone else and everyone can teach you something about life if you just listen and learn.
That we are the creator (God) of our own World. Feelings and thoughts create.
First thing I've learned: if you can't write intelligibly, use the spellcheck.
hi there,,, well a story worth telling .. yes my story is that as a child i lost my innosence..as i grew i lost my health withtime now i am a disabled in college.. i lost my marriage once married.. well is taht a story .. and i lost myself now..
let me telll u these lines above r not just a story but the reality of my life, i have really lost a lot .. but wat have i learned is that no matter what i beleive in my ownself... i am a top scorer at my uni .. and even the profs had underestimated my abilities im an author of 20 articles on psychology a poet of 200+ poems and my age is only 20... believe it or not .. its the truth ...
what have i learned is that i am strong to face every torment of this world... solobng as i trust no one but myself and God... and my message to this world is that .. u might feel alone and broke.. but if u believe in yourself... you will never break down and cry .. u will never feel dead beforer death .. and the most important thing is that ...i have started councelling people after all i went through and i find peace in it .. so by sharing others sorrows your decrease your pain .. HELP OTHERS LIVE AND YOUR LIFE WILL BE EASIER...
God bless the world.. amen
i've learned to enjoy the differences in people in that understanding them rather then condemning them is easier, it doesn't help in liking them any more mind you but at least i know why.
That one can act responsibly and still fail to achieve one's goals.
k listen now my advice 2 u is tht u should let ur n ur brain decide not wht otherz say about whatever thing n more life is about tryin n not winning coz tryin is in fact more than winning
n much much more 2 say...
LIFE-I AM LEARNING IT EVERY TIME,IT OFFERS ALL THE NEW EXPERIENCES TO ME ALL THE TIME,IT IS DEEP AND SOUND DEEP INSIDE BUT TENDER AND LOVABLE,ITS A MIXTURE OF TRUTH AND FICTION,ITS SOMETIMES SWEET AND SOUR,ITS CUROIUS AND JELOUS AT TIMES,AND SO ON.....BUT ONE THING I LEARNED LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.
we should enjoy the every moment of it and let the others do the same. My life story is a romantic comedy with some tragic character playing their minor roles. I'm the hero and the villain in my story.
I have learned to trust God in everything that i do and everything works out for the better when i do.
That every man is deserving of a modicum of sympathy. Most of us aren't that many $$ from living in a box on the street. Giving makes the heart feel good.
Most things of real value do not come without effort; sometimes lots of effort. No matter what the skill, there are no shortcuts around diligence and practice.
Most everyone could use a little more patience; especially me.
And life is indeed short, but my life has been full and joyful, because I have an appreciation for the simple things as well as the complex and the material. Everybody likes ';toys,'; but for some there's no end to it. Material goods do not bring real happiness.
I have learned that life is not fair but that there is nothing you can do about it. I've learned that when it is your time to die, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it, but that if it is NOT your time to die, then you are not going....regardless of stupid medical mistakes etc......
I've learned that no matter how good or bad it gets, life never stays the same. Everything changes.
there is a right and wrong why to do a right and wrong thing .so many do the right thing the wrong why and wonder why god is not with them they must do the right thing the right way .and so many no how to do a wrong thing the right way and they prosper in wrong doing and we say to god why i who do what is right and he that does what is wrong ,why is it he succeeds and i fail? it is because we must do the right thing the right why to succed or we must do the wrong thing the right why to suceed .to do the right or wrong thing the wrong why is foolish and unproductive .
Probably the most important thing I've learned so far, is that this is my life, and it's up to me (and nobody else) to determine how I see things. Events are simply that ,an event, and I can choose which way I see and deal with that event. I find I am more at peace when I control my life and don't let life control me.
It was Shakespeare who once said: ';At least to thine self be honest!'; Never was there a truer life philosophy spoken!!!!
I've learned that we all want happiness, and when we try to fill it ourselves, we fail. Happiness comes from using your talents to serve others, and others will give back to you to provide happiness. The other thing is to be real about your weaknesses. This keeps you humble as you use your talents to serve others. These two things are blessed by God and what will grant us exception in the next life.
I have learned that there is no forever, so a person has to be ready to adapt to change. Life is all about changes. The better a person is able to ';go with the flow';, the better they will be able to live a happy life.What have you learned about life so far? What advice can you give everyone?
Never forget that everyone is on this planet doing the same thing that you are... living. Almost every human desires the same thing... happiness, the ability to live freely, the basic necessities to survive and some space to be individuals. Learn to put yourself in another persons shoes and realize how similar we all really are.
i learnt never to trust no one.
EVERYONE ive ever known has screwed me over. so it taught me to ONLY rely upon myself.
What I have learned from life is just when you think you have it all figured out, life throws you a sucker punch. The best advice I have got is keep your head up, and your nose to the grind stone. Happiness is how you look at your situation not what you do or did. Example say you got lost your job, then that wish that you had nothing to do just came true. So learn to laugh at the irony of life, but don't stop living it just go where it takes you. Do the best you can, regardless of what others think ';your best'; is always good enough, the only person you have to beat is yourself.
i have learnt dat life is an exam we have 2 pass and we wil get reward in da form of heaven or hell! basically i advise all to dun trust any1 coz every1 is so selfish and will consider u after their own preferences! u come in dis world alone n u have to leave it alone! believe in god! and live fairly!
It is still being written, and I take as many notes as possible.
In life there are spaces for many things, they move and move you. they are alive with mysteries , they are fragile and they become strong, they are foundational in many forms. being touched and touching the elements are in itself, the introduction to all that I can hope to know.
As each year passes I discover that there is so much to learn in life.When I was a teen life seemed to revolve around myself and my immediate circle of friends and family. When I went to college I met a lot of different and fascinating people. At the age of 21 I found myself wanting to learn about everything I could possibly learn in one lifetime. People and different cultures are so interesting and yet basically at the core so similar.
I traveled to a few foreign countries when I was 22 and met even MORE different and fascinating people I constantly read and try to learn about current events and historical events as well.
I moved from the south to Minnesota when I was 25 and learned that even in America there are cultural differences by region and now when I talk to friends and family from back home they can hear the change in my accent and way of life.
The most important thing I have learned over 29 years of life is to stop judging and start living.
No one is better than anyone else and everyone can teach you something about life if you just listen and learn.
That we are the creator (God) of our own World. Feelings and thoughts create.
First thing I've learned: if you can't write intelligibly, use the spellcheck.
hi there,,, well a story worth telling .. yes my story is that as a child i lost my innosence..as i grew i lost my health withtime now i am a disabled in college.. i lost my marriage once married.. well is taht a story .. and i lost myself now..
let me telll u these lines above r not just a story but the reality of my life, i have really lost a lot .. but wat have i learned is that no matter what i beleive in my ownself... i am a top scorer at my uni .. and even the profs had underestimated my abilities im an author of 20 articles on psychology a poet of 200+ poems and my age is only 20... believe it or not .. its the truth ...
what have i learned is that i am strong to face every torment of this world... solobng as i trust no one but myself and God... and my message to this world is that .. u might feel alone and broke.. but if u believe in yourself... you will never break down and cry .. u will never feel dead beforer death .. and the most important thing is that ...i have started councelling people after all i went through and i find peace in it .. so by sharing others sorrows your decrease your pain .. HELP OTHERS LIVE AND YOUR LIFE WILL BE EASIER...
God bless the world.. amen
i've learned to enjoy the differences in people in that understanding them rather then condemning them is easier, it doesn't help in liking them any more mind you but at least i know why.
That one can act responsibly and still fail to achieve one's goals.
k listen now my advice 2 u is tht u should let ur n ur brain decide not wht otherz say about whatever thing n more life is about tryin n not winning coz tryin is in fact more than winning
n much much more 2 say...
LIFE-I AM LEARNING IT EVERY TIME,IT OFFERS ALL THE NEW EXPERIENCES TO ME ALL THE TIME,IT IS DEEP AND SOUND DEEP INSIDE BUT TENDER AND LOVABLE,ITS A MIXTURE OF TRUTH AND FICTION,ITS SOMETIMES SWEET AND SOUR,ITS CUROIUS AND JELOUS AT TIMES,AND SO ON.....BUT ONE THING I LEARNED LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL.
we should enjoy the every moment of it and let the others do the same. My life story is a romantic comedy with some tragic character playing their minor roles. I'm the hero and the villain in my story.
I have learned to trust God in everything that i do and everything works out for the better when i do.
That every man is deserving of a modicum of sympathy. Most of us aren't that many $$ from living in a box on the street. Giving makes the heart feel good.
Most things of real value do not come without effort; sometimes lots of effort. No matter what the skill, there are no shortcuts around diligence and practice.
Most everyone could use a little more patience; especially me.
And life is indeed short, but my life has been full and joyful, because I have an appreciation for the simple things as well as the complex and the material. Everybody likes ';toys,'; but for some there's no end to it. Material goods do not bring real happiness.
I have learned that life is not fair but that there is nothing you can do about it. I've learned that when it is your time to die, there is absolutely nothing you can do about it, but that if it is NOT your time to die, then you are not going....regardless of stupid medical mistakes etc......
I've learned that no matter how good or bad it gets, life never stays the same. Everything changes.
there is a right and wrong why to do a right and wrong thing .so many do the right thing the wrong why and wonder why god is not with them they must do the right thing the right way .and so many no how to do a wrong thing the right way and they prosper in wrong doing and we say to god why i who do what is right and he that does what is wrong ,why is it he succeeds and i fail? it is because we must do the right thing the right why to succed or we must do the wrong thing the right why to suceed .to do the right or wrong thing the wrong why is foolish and unproductive .
Probably the most important thing I've learned so far, is that this is my life, and it's up to me (and nobody else) to determine how I see things. Events are simply that ,an event, and I can choose which way I see and deal with that event. I find I am more at peace when I control my life and don't let life control me.
It was Shakespeare who once said: ';At least to thine self be honest!'; Never was there a truer life philosophy spoken!!!!
I've learned that we all want happiness, and when we try to fill it ourselves, we fail. Happiness comes from using your talents to serve others, and others will give back to you to provide happiness. The other thing is to be real about your weaknesses. This keeps you humble as you use your talents to serve others. These two things are blessed by God and what will grant us exception in the next life.
I want to start canning, do you have any advice?
I am moving to a farm and I will have about every vegetable and already have some fruit trees, peach, pear, apricot, apple. Do you have any advice for a first time canner?I want to start canning, do you have any advice?
Be organized and make sure you have everything you need before you even start. Read through all the recipes your going to use and make sure you have enough ingredients. Make sure your jars are sterilized along with the lids and rings. Have your water tested if your making anything pickled, soft water will make them mushy and give a nasty looking color. Having enough counter/work space is very important. When your jars come out of the canner place them away from any cool drafts as they can and will shatter if you put them directly in front of an a/c vent {yes it happened to me, what a damn mess plum jelly no less} Have fruits and veggies ripe but not over or under ripe that will also make a big diff in the quality of the finished product. If you want to do allot of canning stagger your planting so your not overwhelmed because everything will come ripe at the same time. In other words plant 2 rows of peas then 1 week later plant 2 more, this goes for anything you really like. And if you get overwhelmed with your harvest don`t be afraid to give it away, but be forewarned your friends might start locking there cars and hiding if you try and pawn too much off on them, LOL. Good luck with your venture.I want to start canning, do you have any advice?
Get an updated book on canning. Follow the directions to the letter. Canning is a lot of work and it is time consuming but the results are worth the effort. Again, it is vital that you read, understand and follow the directions. Some foods that contain a lot of acid or are canned with vinegar are pretty safe but low acid foods and meat are dangerous unless it is done exactly right. You will find by reading the canning book that some things have to be pressure canned and some can be water bath canned. There is a big difference. Each type of food will have different instructions as to how to pack them and how much time they have to spend in the caner. Read up on it and enjoy.
Don't jump to conclusions about someone elses canning unless you've tried it. Some people don't always tell the truth and some are just plain stupid.
Try all methods or at least try and figure them out. I wouldn't try anything that I didn't know for sure, you could waste a lot of time and expenses.
Go to the library and ask them what books they can recommend for you; You have to know what you are doing when you can something because if you do it wrong you could get very very sick from the bacteria or even mold getting in the food.
Start shopping thrift stores, garage sales, wherever, now for supplies. Jars can be found for $.10- $.50 at garage sales, etc. I bought my canner at St Vincents for $5.00. You will save oodles of money if you start now, before everybody else does.
Ball Corp. has a very good book on canning. Not so detailed but informative. I bought one at Wal mart two years ago( In the canning supply dept)
you should look around at diffrent websites to help you out in what you need for supplies.
http://www.homecanning.com/
grum and renpen are on the mark.
enjoy the your efforts.preventing blackheads
Be organized and make sure you have everything you need before you even start. Read through all the recipes your going to use and make sure you have enough ingredients. Make sure your jars are sterilized along with the lids and rings. Have your water tested if your making anything pickled, soft water will make them mushy and give a nasty looking color. Having enough counter/work space is very important. When your jars come out of the canner place them away from any cool drafts as they can and will shatter if you put them directly in front of an a/c vent {yes it happened to me, what a damn mess plum jelly no less} Have fruits and veggies ripe but not over or under ripe that will also make a big diff in the quality of the finished product. If you want to do allot of canning stagger your planting so your not overwhelmed because everything will come ripe at the same time. In other words plant 2 rows of peas then 1 week later plant 2 more, this goes for anything you really like. And if you get overwhelmed with your harvest don`t be afraid to give it away, but be forewarned your friends might start locking there cars and hiding if you try and pawn too much off on them, LOL. Good luck with your venture.I want to start canning, do you have any advice?
Get an updated book on canning. Follow the directions to the letter. Canning is a lot of work and it is time consuming but the results are worth the effort. Again, it is vital that you read, understand and follow the directions. Some foods that contain a lot of acid or are canned with vinegar are pretty safe but low acid foods and meat are dangerous unless it is done exactly right. You will find by reading the canning book that some things have to be pressure canned and some can be water bath canned. There is a big difference. Each type of food will have different instructions as to how to pack them and how much time they have to spend in the caner. Read up on it and enjoy.
Don't jump to conclusions about someone elses canning unless you've tried it. Some people don't always tell the truth and some are just plain stupid.
Try all methods or at least try and figure them out. I wouldn't try anything that I didn't know for sure, you could waste a lot of time and expenses.
Go to the library and ask them what books they can recommend for you; You have to know what you are doing when you can something because if you do it wrong you could get very very sick from the bacteria or even mold getting in the food.
Start shopping thrift stores, garage sales, wherever, now for supplies. Jars can be found for $.10- $.50 at garage sales, etc. I bought my canner at St Vincents for $5.00. You will save oodles of money if you start now, before everybody else does.
Ball Corp. has a very good book on canning. Not so detailed but informative. I bought one at Wal mart two years ago( In the canning supply dept)
you should look around at diffrent websites to help you out in what you need for supplies.
http://www.homecanning.com/
grum and renpen are on the mark.
enjoy the your efforts.
What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier??
I'm off in January to Bulgaria with 17 other people, They all done it before (except one of them) So me and her are going to do ski school. I brought my jacket today, But i plan on hiring everything else. What tips can you give me to help me out? Anything from Clothing, to help with my technique.
What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier?? Or shall i try snowbording before sking??What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier??
Well my advice is that u try skiing because snowboarding will be harder. I am sure you are going to fall a lot of times even if u use skies. Another thing is that clothing will not help you with your technique. And you can hire skies, without problem. Better skies wont make u ski better, trust me I knw. They will give u just fine skies.What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier??
If you are only skiing on one trip, don't bother buying your own boots. ';Hired'; boots suck, but it's not worth it to buy new boots for one trip.
Technique: well, you have to get lessons. You really have to. You won't develop without the guidance of an instructor, and if you try without, you may actually end up in the first aid shack.
So, invest in lessons!
You want gloves, hat, and goggles as well!
1. if you fall over it hurts
2. dont eat yellow snow
3. its bloody cold so wrap up warm
Dont fall !
trust me get your own boot's too....and dont break anything
My daughter went skiing for the first time last year to Croatia, she bought everything except boots and skis.Her recommendation is definitely buy your own boots
What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier?? Or shall i try snowbording before sking??What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier??
Well my advice is that u try skiing because snowboarding will be harder. I am sure you are going to fall a lot of times even if u use skies. Another thing is that clothing will not help you with your technique. And you can hire skies, without problem. Better skies wont make u ski better, trust me I knw. They will give u just fine skies.What general advice can you ppl give me a 1st time skier??
If you are only skiing on one trip, don't bother buying your own boots. ';Hired'; boots suck, but it's not worth it to buy new boots for one trip.
Technique: well, you have to get lessons. You really have to. You won't develop without the guidance of an instructor, and if you try without, you may actually end up in the first aid shack.
So, invest in lessons!
You want gloves, hat, and goggles as well!
1. if you fall over it hurts
2. dont eat yellow snow
3. its bloody cold so wrap up warm
Dont fall !
trust me get your own boot's too....and dont break anything
My daughter went skiing for the first time last year to Croatia, she bought everything except boots and skis.Her recommendation is definitely buy your own boots
What advice would you give to a person who feels so hopeless that suicide seems like the only solution?
... and this person is not open to the concept of counselling/therapy.
... this person wants to isolate herself and dissapear
How would you help this person?What advice would you give to a person who feels so hopeless that suicide seems like the only solution?
I would say that you need to talk to them. Just listen. Maybe she just wants someone to listen. If she told you this, she wants you to listen.
If it's you, that you are talking about then
you need to know people care. Things will get easier. It's always darkest before the dawn. Everyone has hard times.What advice would you give to a person who feels so hopeless that suicide seems like the only solution?
Send them bright and cheery flowers with a little card to cheer them up. Everytime they see the flowers they might feel a little better...long enough to cope and work thru their depression.
Remind them that there is no going back for a redo after the fact. Better be absolutely positive first. Then I would remind them that it might be better to hang around a bit just to see what happens next.
suicide is easier to consider then to actually do(succesfully) but you can always try and see.
If that person is actually considering suicide, I would have that person involuntarily hospitalized as a suicide risk. Suicidality is a psychiatric disease, and it can be fatal, it's no less urgent than a physical wound or infection, and needs treatment, even if the person does not want it. By definition, anyone who is considering suicide (with only very few exceptions defined by serious endstage physical disease) does not at that point have the capacity to make their own health care decisions, so he (or she) must be treated, even if it's against his will.
I agree 100% with The Doc. Death isn't an option. That would only be the beginning of torment.
There is hope. The Bible teaches us that God is our hope. There is always something to hold to when we feel this way. Some days it may only be a tiny little sliver of something, but something at least.
If it is you or a friend - my advice would be to ';seek help'; and Pray to GOD to comfort and lead.
BTW GOD is with us even when we are alone and He loves each of us the same. The Bible also teaches us that HE is our help in our time of need.
Sometimes we focus on things too much and lose sight of the real purpose of life.
Hope this can be of help!
If she likes pets...I would like her to come to my place and help me teach my cat not to **** on the floor. She has a litter box, I need help to teach her how to use it.
Fortunately the only thing that can be done and the only person that can help you is you. You need to find the will to live and understand that is not a way out. And if you do this you hurt everyone around you. So if you are really serious and u just don't feel like going on then you need to put yourself in the Hospital and make yourself safe so that you cant harm your self. I'm sure that you are scared right now so consider it A time out and a small Vacation to get some help. Trust me I have been there , where you just don't know if you can go on. And the only way out you think is Suicide. But it's not. So take some time to your self and think really hard about what you are going to be throwing away. And understand that if you do it there is no coming back , and life is always going to be hard and challenging. And there is always going to be ups and downs. But trust me it always gets better I promise. It might not seem like it right now but It dose. Sp please just pray to God to give you Peace of mind and Live and be the great person that you are and that God had intended you to be.
God Bless you.
And please don't do it. Remember it dose get better.....
... this person wants to isolate herself and dissapear
How would you help this person?What advice would you give to a person who feels so hopeless that suicide seems like the only solution?
I would say that you need to talk to them. Just listen. Maybe she just wants someone to listen. If she told you this, she wants you to listen.
If it's you, that you are talking about then
you need to know people care. Things will get easier. It's always darkest before the dawn. Everyone has hard times.What advice would you give to a person who feels so hopeless that suicide seems like the only solution?
Send them bright and cheery flowers with a little card to cheer them up. Everytime they see the flowers they might feel a little better...long enough to cope and work thru their depression.
Remind them that there is no going back for a redo after the fact. Better be absolutely positive first. Then I would remind them that it might be better to hang around a bit just to see what happens next.
suicide is easier to consider then to actually do(succesfully) but you can always try and see.
If that person is actually considering suicide, I would have that person involuntarily hospitalized as a suicide risk. Suicidality is a psychiatric disease, and it can be fatal, it's no less urgent than a physical wound or infection, and needs treatment, even if the person does not want it. By definition, anyone who is considering suicide (with only very few exceptions defined by serious endstage physical disease) does not at that point have the capacity to make their own health care decisions, so he (or she) must be treated, even if it's against his will.
I agree 100% with The Doc. Death isn't an option. That would only be the beginning of torment.
There is hope. The Bible teaches us that God is our hope. There is always something to hold to when we feel this way. Some days it may only be a tiny little sliver of something, but something at least.
If it is you or a friend - my advice would be to ';seek help'; and Pray to GOD to comfort and lead.
BTW GOD is with us even when we are alone and He loves each of us the same. The Bible also teaches us that HE is our help in our time of need.
Sometimes we focus on things too much and lose sight of the real purpose of life.
Hope this can be of help!
If she likes pets...I would like her to come to my place and help me teach my cat not to **** on the floor. She has a litter box, I need help to teach her how to use it.
Fortunately the only thing that can be done and the only person that can help you is you. You need to find the will to live and understand that is not a way out. And if you do this you hurt everyone around you. So if you are really serious and u just don't feel like going on then you need to put yourself in the Hospital and make yourself safe so that you cant harm your self. I'm sure that you are scared right now so consider it A time out and a small Vacation to get some help. Trust me I have been there , where you just don't know if you can go on. And the only way out you think is Suicide. But it's not. So take some time to your self and think really hard about what you are going to be throwing away. And understand that if you do it there is no coming back , and life is always going to be hard and challenging. And there is always going to be ups and downs. But trust me it always gets better I promise. It might not seem like it right now but It dose. Sp please just pray to God to give you Peace of mind and Live and be the great person that you are and that God had intended you to be.
God Bless you.
And please don't do it. Remember it dose get better.....
How can you tell good advice from bad advice?
I wanted to put this question up to help others realise that not all advice they obtain is good advice. I myself think that if the person seems to know what he or she is talking about, and posts it in a intulectual manner, with proper sources, Not just: I know relationships, Or I know I know.How can you tell good advice from bad advice?
There's a old saying:
';Listen to too much advice and you end up making other people's mistakes.';
Take advice under consideration, but let the final call be yours.
There's a old saying:
';Listen to too much advice and you end up making other people's mistakes.';
Take advice under consideration, but let the final call be yours.
What advice do you give someone that wants to join the army?
Im in the Army.. I love it... I gotten my degree in criminal justice.. my brother wants to join but i really dont know what to tell him becuz he is older than me and i dont want to make it seem like its all fun and gamesWhat advice do you give someone that wants to join the army?
Alzheimer's/Dementia.What advice do you give someone that wants to join the army?
You got it right the first time! Explain- no, emphasize, it is not all fun and games,. It is a very serious commitment.
There are untold rewards, but those rewards are not without a price! You may get an opportunity to see places like Germany, Japan, etc, but you also may have the opportunity to see places like South Korea, Iraq and Afghanistan. No one GIVES you the GI bill, you EARN it.
I'm sure you and anyone else who has ever been in knows what FTA stands for. And I'm sure you;ve seen your share of hotshots who wanna become airborne ranger MP's who are reduced to sniveling POS by the end of the first week of basic.
Explain all this to him, just be sure he is certain of what he is in for, then let the chips fall where they may. He is furtunate to have some like you who has been there %26amp; done that. Stress the committment, and the rewards that follow.
If you're already in the Army and ';gotten'; a degree, you should already know what to tell him.
However, my advice is:
* Get to the point where you can run two miles in 18 minutes
* Be able to do 30 pushups (CORRECTLY!) and 30 situps w/o stopping
* Learn to make hospital corners on your bed
* Learn the Soldier's Creed before shipping to basic training
They'll teach you everything else
i would tell him to get wise and start making decisions for himself.
in the military they tell what to wear, where to live, who to kill...
Watch your six the Commander in Chief is a Coward.
Look at those poor guys in Afghanastan abandon on the battlefield dying as we speak and Obama doesn't care.
Semper Fi
During a ression or depression its good income and you get educational money. Why do we have ressions?
Try new hydrating Volvic Revive!
pick a job you'll like doing, otherwise you'll hate life
Alzheimer's/Dementia.What advice do you give someone that wants to join the army?
You got it right the first time! Explain- no, emphasize, it is not all fun and games,. It is a very serious commitment.
There are untold rewards, but those rewards are not without a price! You may get an opportunity to see places like Germany, Japan, etc, but you also may have the opportunity to see places like South Korea, Iraq and Afghanistan. No one GIVES you the GI bill, you EARN it.
I'm sure you and anyone else who has ever been in knows what FTA stands for. And I'm sure you;ve seen your share of hotshots who wanna become airborne ranger MP's who are reduced to sniveling POS by the end of the first week of basic.
Explain all this to him, just be sure he is certain of what he is in for, then let the chips fall where they may. He is furtunate to have some like you who has been there %26amp; done that. Stress the committment, and the rewards that follow.
If you're already in the Army and ';gotten'; a degree, you should already know what to tell him.
However, my advice is:
* Get to the point where you can run two miles in 18 minutes
* Be able to do 30 pushups (CORRECTLY!) and 30 situps w/o stopping
* Learn to make hospital corners on your bed
* Learn the Soldier's Creed before shipping to basic training
They'll teach you everything else
i would tell him to get wise and start making decisions for himself.
in the military they tell what to wear, where to live, who to kill...
Watch your six the Commander in Chief is a Coward.
Look at those poor guys in Afghanastan abandon on the battlefield dying as we speak and Obama doesn't care.
Semper Fi
During a ression or depression its good income and you get educational money. Why do we have ressions?
Try new hydrating Volvic Revive!
pick a job you'll like doing, otherwise you'll hate life
What is the best single piece of advice you would give to someone.?
If you were to give someone - a loved one/best friend/person who needs help/etc - one piece of advice to help them live their lives well, what would it be?What is the best single piece of advice you would give to someone.?
Don't run after happiness, just be cool and it would come in search of you..... being cool implies moderation and balance.What is the best single piece of advice you would give to someone.?
When you keep telling yourself something -- that is the program, what your family and background have hammered into you. What you keep denying to yourself, that is what you secretly want, and although you can't always get what you want, you have to integrate that feeling into your life to function fully.
Basic Freud, minus all the psycho-sexual bullsh!t.
It's alright to let go of me, I'm in the makers hands. If i should fall and break apart, the maker will pick up my pieces. If you insist upon holding me i will grow heavy with age and you will drop me just the same. Go now and make your burdens light and remember these words i leave with you; I'm in the makers hands.
When you come to the fork in the road
where you must go up or down.
Never take the path of ';least'; resistance,
or you will end up at the bottom with
everyone else. %26lt;}:-})
You and ONLY you are responsible for whatever happens to you! If you think this way you will always be happy and successful.
Not to worry to be happy.
''Always remember the people you met on your way up because you may meet them when you fall down''
Work to live, dont live to work.
Try to get help from those who have experience in life, because life is always reapeating
Embrace it all, not just the good bits. Seize the day, because we'll be dead before too long. X
Keep yourself wealthy of health
Own a pet rabbit.preventing blackheads
Don't run after happiness, just be cool and it would come in search of you..... being cool implies moderation and balance.What is the best single piece of advice you would give to someone.?
When you keep telling yourself something -- that is the program, what your family and background have hammered into you. What you keep denying to yourself, that is what you secretly want, and although you can't always get what you want, you have to integrate that feeling into your life to function fully.
Basic Freud, minus all the psycho-sexual bullsh!t.
It's alright to let go of me, I'm in the makers hands. If i should fall and break apart, the maker will pick up my pieces. If you insist upon holding me i will grow heavy with age and you will drop me just the same. Go now and make your burdens light and remember these words i leave with you; I'm in the makers hands.
When you come to the fork in the road
where you must go up or down.
Never take the path of ';least'; resistance,
or you will end up at the bottom with
everyone else. %26lt;}:-})
You and ONLY you are responsible for whatever happens to you! If you think this way you will always be happy and successful.
Not to worry to be happy.
''Always remember the people you met on your way up because you may meet them when you fall down''
Work to live, dont live to work.
Try to get help from those who have experience in life, because life is always reapeating
Embrace it all, not just the good bits. Seize the day, because we'll be dead before too long. X
Keep yourself wealthy of health
Own a pet rabbit.
Where should you seek inspiration and practical advice when trying to start your own business?
Practical advice, you can get from websites such as these:
Entrepreneur http://www.entrepreneur.com
Inc.com http://www.inc.com
SBA http://www.sba.gov/starting_business/
PowerHomeBiz.com http://www.powerhomebiz.com
Or use a service such as SCORE http://www.score.org
For inspiration, you may want to read of small business success stories, such as the following:
Women Home Business http://www.womenhomebusiness.com/
SBA Small Business Persons of the Year http://www.sba.gov/expo/Where should you seek inspiration and practical advice when trying to start your own business?
It depends on the type of business... in my particular case, i started a Design Studio looking the perfect natural shapes, then i began to mix that natural stuff with common images focused on the project i wanted to develop. I don't know, when i need inspiration i just go outside i try to relax a take deep breath series, and then i look around for the perfect shapes, sounds and scents to expand my ideas...Where should you seek inspiration and practical advice when trying to start your own business?
Other local small business owners are usually the most helpful and encouraging. Most free business consultants are like talking to bankers - you'll leave wishing you never went.
How you checked with your local county? I know my county in Virginia offers workshops and seminars specifically for small business owners and those looking to begin one. They even provide resources of what types of businesses they believe are needed in the county. hope that helps!
A hooka BAr
From what I have been told, business incubators are a wonderful resource for people that are starting up a new business. You could also start networking with other business owners in your industry and talk to them about how they were able to start their businesses. They are usually very helpful.
there are many business cunsultants in every field of bus u want to go into. but your best results can come from the oldest bus of the type you want in the area u r in and other areas. IE, talk to your competiters. They will give u an idea if your angel is original plus the base of operations that has been proven to work.
Entrepreneur http://www.entrepreneur.com
Inc.com http://www.inc.com
SBA http://www.sba.gov/starting_business/
PowerHomeBiz.com http://www.powerhomebiz.com
Or use a service such as SCORE http://www.score.org
For inspiration, you may want to read of small business success stories, such as the following:
Women Home Business http://www.womenhomebusiness.com/
SBA Small Business Persons of the Year http://www.sba.gov/expo/Where should you seek inspiration and practical advice when trying to start your own business?
It depends on the type of business... in my particular case, i started a Design Studio looking the perfect natural shapes, then i began to mix that natural stuff with common images focused on the project i wanted to develop. I don't know, when i need inspiration i just go outside i try to relax a take deep breath series, and then i look around for the perfect shapes, sounds and scents to expand my ideas...Where should you seek inspiration and practical advice when trying to start your own business?
Other local small business owners are usually the most helpful and encouraging. Most free business consultants are like talking to bankers - you'll leave wishing you never went.
How you checked with your local county? I know my county in Virginia offers workshops and seminars specifically for small business owners and those looking to begin one. They even provide resources of what types of businesses they believe are needed in the county. hope that helps!
A hooka BAr
From what I have been told, business incubators are a wonderful resource for people that are starting up a new business. You could also start networking with other business owners in your industry and talk to them about how they were able to start their businesses. They are usually very helpful.
there are many business cunsultants in every field of bus u want to go into. but your best results can come from the oldest bus of the type you want in the area u r in and other areas. IE, talk to your competiters. They will give u an idea if your angel is original plus the base of operations that has been proven to work.
What national food in London you would advice me to try?
Hi! I'll be in a short visit to London next week.
1) What national food should I definitely try?
2) Please advice me nice cafes or restaurants in London, not very expensive and not very cheap.
Thank you!What national food in London you would advice me to try?
English breakfy.
Yummi.
Baked beans!!!!, sausages, scrambled egges, bacon, sometimes chips and mushrooms as well.. basically depends on wot you like, oh yeah and toastie. yummi.
It just too delicious.
Nice cafes? Lol mostly them are Nero, Costa, Starbucks.
England rather famous of its pubs.
Some nice pubs well just go around Covent Garden and you will find a ton.What national food in London you would advice me to try?
Fish %26amp; Chips or anything from a Camden market stall.
lol, tea and crumpets
sorry, had to do it
fish and chips - a british dish
1) What national food should I definitely try?
2) Please advice me nice cafes or restaurants in London, not very expensive and not very cheap.
Thank you!What national food in London you would advice me to try?
English breakfy.
Yummi.
Baked beans!!!!, sausages, scrambled egges, bacon, sometimes chips and mushrooms as well.. basically depends on wot you like, oh yeah and toastie. yummi.
It just too delicious.
Nice cafes? Lol mostly them are Nero, Costa, Starbucks.
England rather famous of its pubs.
Some nice pubs well just go around Covent Garden and you will find a ton.What national food in London you would advice me to try?
Fish %26amp; Chips or anything from a Camden market stall.
lol, tea and crumpets
sorry, had to do it
fish and chips - a british dish
I planted some shallot bulbs and they are doing really well. Do you have any advice for a beginner?
How can I increase the number of plants, how do you harvest and use them? Do they flower?I planted some shallot bulbs and they are doing really well. Do you have any advice for a beginner?
I planted a few several years ago and they are now a large clump 4ft across. they bloom in two colors, white and lavender. Summer or winter, if I need a few I just take what I need from the edge of the clump. RScott
I planted a few several years ago and they are now a large clump 4ft across. they bloom in two colors, white and lavender. Summer or winter, if I need a few I just take what I need from the edge of the clump. RScott
What's the best most intruiging insightful advice anyone has ever told you in your life?
people have got so much more wisdom and experience and was just wondering what advice, spiritual or not that someones told you that you will never forget and just believe with all your heart is true? and who told you? thanks so much.What's the best most intruiging insightful advice anyone has ever told you in your life?
For me, it was the book ';The Selfish Gene'; by Richard Dawkins. It changed my outlook on life.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Selfish鈥?/a>What's the best most intruiging insightful advice anyone has ever told you in your life?
Through resourcefulness and hard work, my parents rose from near poverty to being fairly well off. At a very early age, I was taught by my father to know the value of a dollar. I was given an allowance of several dollars a week, and if I ran short, it was my own fault. I worked my way through college, and had to make my money last. Even today, I am a good money manager even though economic times are at an all-time low. There's a passage in the Bible that states: ';Raise a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.'; No truer words have ever been spoken.
My best friends Grandmother always told us to ';Kill 'em with kindness!'; I really believe that is the way to treat others. This coincides with many spiritual beliefs about giving unto others. I think goodness prevails in most circumstances and have had pretty good luck with it.
Some of the most difficult lessons (experiences) in life are the ones we learn the most from. I don't remember who told me, however it has stayed with me for a long time.
';You can only control yourself'; - kind of goes without saying and although I knew this already it helps to be reminded of this whenever someone else does something that makes no sense to you at all.
Act in a way you want to be treated. If evreyone did that the world would be a better place. My mom said that to me.
There will always be someone who has it better off compared to you and someone that has it worse.
Get up you son of a *****, cause Mickey loves ya!
For me, it was the book ';The Selfish Gene'; by Richard Dawkins. It changed my outlook on life.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Selfish鈥?/a>What's the best most intruiging insightful advice anyone has ever told you in your life?
Through resourcefulness and hard work, my parents rose from near poverty to being fairly well off. At a very early age, I was taught by my father to know the value of a dollar. I was given an allowance of several dollars a week, and if I ran short, it was my own fault. I worked my way through college, and had to make my money last. Even today, I am a good money manager even though economic times are at an all-time low. There's a passage in the Bible that states: ';Raise a child in the way he should go and when he is old, he will not depart from it.'; No truer words have ever been spoken.
My best friends Grandmother always told us to ';Kill 'em with kindness!'; I really believe that is the way to treat others. This coincides with many spiritual beliefs about giving unto others. I think goodness prevails in most circumstances and have had pretty good luck with it.
Some of the most difficult lessons (experiences) in life are the ones we learn the most from. I don't remember who told me, however it has stayed with me for a long time.
';You can only control yourself'; - kind of goes without saying and although I knew this already it helps to be reminded of this whenever someone else does something that makes no sense to you at all.
Act in a way you want to be treated. If evreyone did that the world would be a better place. My mom said that to me.
There will always be someone who has it better off compared to you and someone that has it worse.
Get up you son of a *****, cause Mickey loves ya!
If you were a Campaign consultant what advice would you give to Hillary right now?
I think she's wrong to attack Obama, I think she should maintain the high rode.If you were a Campaign consultant what advice would you give to Hillary right now?
try to ignore the mindless children who have taken pleasure in attacking her for the past 15 or more years. Keep working, take the high road but continue to point out the experience issue. She is the most qualified; there is no serious doubt of that.If you were a Campaign consultant what advice would you give to Hillary right now?
Hillary should throw in the towel before she loses more money (or wastes other peoples) And when has she ever taken the High Road?!?!?!?
My advice to Hillary would be to drop out before she gets totally embarassed
My advice to her is to dig up more facts and figures, etc. and come with them because the more she criticizes Obama the worse press she gets and she drops in the polls. I won't to be like Dr. Phil and ask her, ';How's that working for ya'?';.
I would tell her to drop out, go back to Bubba and make his life miserable for a change.
Drop out now before you're thoroughly embarrassed in New Hampshire. You might be able to win at some point in time; however this isn't that time. Obama has the momentum, let him run with it, IF you really care about the Democratic Party winning the White House.
quit playing politics and stick to what is Known facts
after listening to the debate...it would appear that John Edwards had more passion and drive then the rest .But does that give him clout to run a nation ? i dont think so . Obama as always with mince of words speaks elegant and with trained motovational speaker as he is, yet without any real real emotion of knowledge of facts . Clinton tho very smart and experienced is trying to play thier games of words rather then knowledge of facts she knows...........and the governor , tho very smart , hasnt a clue to the real america it isnt a state and not the same level of wisdom...........and you cant take a dollar and balance billions of dollars with it .
Explain how she is going to pay for health care and bring down the deficit at the same time.
She's been attacking Obama all year long. First it was his experience, next will be his race. She may not come out and say ';he won't win because he's black,'; but she'll hint at it in her I'm-trying-to-pretend-I'm-nice sort of way.
My advice would be, to drop out. It was proven everybody hates your guts.
quit and do the country a HUGE favor. also come clean with travelgate, filegate, whitewater, the vince foster coverup, campaign finance fraud 2000, the rental of the lincoln bedroom, etc.
1. Come clean about her past, including Rose Law Firm and her crooked campain manager, and employee firings.
2. Stop hiding behind her husband.
3. Stop yelling at people who dont please her.
4. Stop stealing money from America with her uniworsal health care scam.
High road.
I think she should adopt as her campaign song, ';Sisters Are Doing It For Themselves';. Wouldn't that be awesome?
Dennis Kucinich gets my vote (again). Obama is my second choice, but really, there is no substitute for Kucinich, the candidate of compassion and peace.
Get some rest, she looks tired. Not on top of her game.
Personally the idea of competing in every state, no matter how small, is well, tiring.
i know i'm biased because i am anti-hillary, but from a political strategy point-of-view alone, she's out of line. if she wants to gain the public's respect and support, attacking her opponents just because she's doing bad isn't going to help things. i think even obama pointed out that she surprisingly didn't say these things when she ahead in the polls, but now that she's doing badly...
you can see right through her shady veil of lies -- she's pissed cause she's behind! that's just pathetic and annoys people. she should just drop out :)
Hillary is incapable of maintaining a high road .Her and Hubby only know corruption and how to brain wash Democrats .She did make the top 10 of Most corrupt Politicians list from (Judicial Watch) and she had plenty of company with Nancy Pelosi (D).Harry Ried (D) and last but not least one of the most corrupt politicians around Obama(D) also in the top 10. Jewel (R) and Huckabee(R) also made the list.The fact is Hillary can easily find corruption in any one of the Democrat front runners and she will use it . That works out fine do to there mud slinging will expose how corrupt the Liberal Democrat party is. And even Democrats if there smart will not vote for them. But that's a lot to ask! And stop with the experience thing .Hillary and Obama together couldn't run a Lemonade stand. They both have ZERO experience!!!!!!! Her being married to a corrupt politician who was impeached hardly qualifies as experience!!
Hillary is a brilliant woman with a unique mind and wonderful ideas, not to mention that her husband is Bill Clinton. If we had these two plus someone like Edwards, America would change for the best, on all fronts (security, the economy, education, healthcare, wages) but she must attack Obama. If voters are dumb and don't see that Obama is unproven and a huge gamble in treacherous times, then they must be warned.
She should cry on TV, no one can stand to see a woman cry and she will get the sympathy vote.
try to ignore the mindless children who have taken pleasure in attacking her for the past 15 or more years. Keep working, take the high road but continue to point out the experience issue. She is the most qualified; there is no serious doubt of that.If you were a Campaign consultant what advice would you give to Hillary right now?
Hillary should throw in the towel before she loses more money (or wastes other peoples) And when has she ever taken the High Road?!?!?!?
My advice to Hillary would be to drop out before she gets totally embarassed
My advice to her is to dig up more facts and figures, etc. and come with them because the more she criticizes Obama the worse press she gets and she drops in the polls. I won't to be like Dr. Phil and ask her, ';How's that working for ya'?';.
I would tell her to drop out, go back to Bubba and make his life miserable for a change.
Drop out now before you're thoroughly embarrassed in New Hampshire. You might be able to win at some point in time; however this isn't that time. Obama has the momentum, let him run with it, IF you really care about the Democratic Party winning the White House.
quit playing politics and stick to what is Known facts
after listening to the debate...it would appear that John Edwards had more passion and drive then the rest .But does that give him clout to run a nation ? i dont think so . Obama as always with mince of words speaks elegant and with trained motovational speaker as he is, yet without any real real emotion of knowledge of facts . Clinton tho very smart and experienced is trying to play thier games of words rather then knowledge of facts she knows...........and the governor , tho very smart , hasnt a clue to the real america it isnt a state and not the same level of wisdom...........and you cant take a dollar and balance billions of dollars with it .
Explain how she is going to pay for health care and bring down the deficit at the same time.
She's been attacking Obama all year long. First it was his experience, next will be his race. She may not come out and say ';he won't win because he's black,'; but she'll hint at it in her I'm-trying-to-pretend-I'm-nice sort of way.
My advice would be, to drop out. It was proven everybody hates your guts.
quit and do the country a HUGE favor. also come clean with travelgate, filegate, whitewater, the vince foster coverup, campaign finance fraud 2000, the rental of the lincoln bedroom, etc.
1. Come clean about her past, including Rose Law Firm and her crooked campain manager, and employee firings.
2. Stop hiding behind her husband.
3. Stop yelling at people who dont please her.
4. Stop stealing money from America with her uniworsal health care scam.
High road.
I think she should adopt as her campaign song, ';Sisters Are Doing It For Themselves';. Wouldn't that be awesome?
Dennis Kucinich gets my vote (again). Obama is my second choice, but really, there is no substitute for Kucinich, the candidate of compassion and peace.
Get some rest, she looks tired. Not on top of her game.
Personally the idea of competing in every state, no matter how small, is well, tiring.
i know i'm biased because i am anti-hillary, but from a political strategy point-of-view alone, she's out of line. if she wants to gain the public's respect and support, attacking her opponents just because she's doing bad isn't going to help things. i think even obama pointed out that she surprisingly didn't say these things when she ahead in the polls, but now that she's doing badly...
you can see right through her shady veil of lies -- she's pissed cause she's behind! that's just pathetic and annoys people. she should just drop out :)
Hillary is incapable of maintaining a high road .Her and Hubby only know corruption and how to brain wash Democrats .She did make the top 10 of Most corrupt Politicians list from (Judicial Watch) and she had plenty of company with Nancy Pelosi (D).Harry Ried (D) and last but not least one of the most corrupt politicians around Obama(D) also in the top 10. Jewel (R) and Huckabee(R) also made the list.The fact is Hillary can easily find corruption in any one of the Democrat front runners and she will use it . That works out fine do to there mud slinging will expose how corrupt the Liberal Democrat party is. And even Democrats if there smart will not vote for them. But that's a lot to ask! And stop with the experience thing .Hillary and Obama together couldn't run a Lemonade stand. They both have ZERO experience!!!!!!! Her being married to a corrupt politician who was impeached hardly qualifies as experience!!
Hillary is a brilliant woman with a unique mind and wonderful ideas, not to mention that her husband is Bill Clinton. If we had these two plus someone like Edwards, America would change for the best, on all fronts (security, the economy, education, healthcare, wages) but she must attack Obama. If voters are dumb and don't see that Obama is unproven and a huge gamble in treacherous times, then they must be warned.
She should cry on TV, no one can stand to see a woman cry and she will get the sympathy vote.
I am planning to write a novel based during the Normandy Landing , D-Day. What advice would you give me?
Specifically, a novel based on one soldiers point of view as he helps raid Omaha Beach and other World War II locations. What advice would you give me?I am planning to write a novel based during the Normandy Landing , D-Day. What advice would you give me?
Don't bother. It has been done to death. There must be at least a 1000 stories based on that one idea alone.preventing blackheads
Don't bother. It has been done to death. There must be at least a 1000 stories based on that one idea alone.
What is the best advice you'd give for the next generation? What is the best advice you got growing up?
Do you remember when you were growing up and someone told you something that really stuck in your mind?
There are moments in out life that clearly define who we become or what decisions we make in the future.Do you remember your ';epiphany'; moment?
Based on your past experiences, positive or negative, what advice would you give to the next generation?What is the best advice you'd give for the next generation? What is the best advice you got growing up?
Never let anyone define who you are or who you want to me. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do something. Always go for gold, and don't let those around you bring you down.
There are moments in out life that clearly define who we become or what decisions we make in the future.Do you remember your ';epiphany'; moment?
Based on your past experiences, positive or negative, what advice would you give to the next generation?What is the best advice you'd give for the next generation? What is the best advice you got growing up?
Never let anyone define who you are or who you want to me. Don't let anyone tell you that you can't do something. Always go for gold, and don't let those around you bring you down.
For people thinking about getting Married what advice would you give them?
I've been married 4 years.
What if your cousin wanted advice from you what would you tell him or her?
What makes a marriage strong?
What makes a marriage last?For people thinking about getting Married what advice would you give them?
Ask yourself:- Was your first attraction to your partner their looks, or were you drawn to their personality. If you were initially attracted by looks, chances are you are infatuated. That will die, given time. If you love the person, love will live on. Too may people dolly themselves up to the eyeballs, in order to attract a mate. Then they wonder why their partner is attracted to other nice looking people and not so attracted to them when their looks fade. Attract a listener, not a looker. Very few actually change after marriage.For people thinking about getting Married what advice would you give them?
Trust. Unconditional love. Communication (before the marriage and during). Good sex! You need ALL of those in order to have a successful, long marriage.
Advice for the engaged? Discuss EVERYTHING before hand (ie: children, money, the future, personal beliefs and morals) There should be no secrets in a marriage. One other piece of advice.....for the woman: Let the little sh*t slide! Don't become a bitter, old nag.
Chemistry, respect, commonalities, friendship, comfort, good conflict-resolution, trust, happiness, same maturity despite age, cultural similarities, families like each other, positive outlook on life, willing to love the person unconditionally from start to finish, in sickness and health. Is that enough?
learn to talk and understand what is important to each other. some things i do not like i let go because it is just how she is and she does the same for me. Example most of the sink and dresser top is covered in junk (her fault i would throw it all out) and i got lots of truck parts somewhat organized but laying out in my yard and under my shed. Just understand each other. Talk about what each wants and is important to them.
rd
Learn to compromise.
Choose the right partner!!!!!
I married a man with an even temperament, and it is such a blessing. He never loses his temper, or is moody.
Marry a man who wants to be married, and to you.
Always treat your partner with respect.
Be affectionate. Talk things through. And always, always, always, talk!!!!
COMMUNICATION is the key!! try to talk about everything even if it seems to be the stupidest thing TALK AND DISCUSS IT!!!
-TRUST
-LOVE
-UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER...
Communication
Trust
Love
Loyalty
Love making
Closeness
Tenderness
Time together and time apart
Respect of eachothers beleifs etc
honour and protection for eachother
Friendship and much much more
It is definity about compromise!!! you will not always get what you want!!
What if your cousin wanted advice from you what would you tell him or her?
What makes a marriage strong?
What makes a marriage last?For people thinking about getting Married what advice would you give them?
Ask yourself:- Was your first attraction to your partner their looks, or were you drawn to their personality. If you were initially attracted by looks, chances are you are infatuated. That will die, given time. If you love the person, love will live on. Too may people dolly themselves up to the eyeballs, in order to attract a mate. Then they wonder why their partner is attracted to other nice looking people and not so attracted to them when their looks fade. Attract a listener, not a looker. Very few actually change after marriage.For people thinking about getting Married what advice would you give them?
Trust. Unconditional love. Communication (before the marriage and during). Good sex! You need ALL of those in order to have a successful, long marriage.
Advice for the engaged? Discuss EVERYTHING before hand (ie: children, money, the future, personal beliefs and morals) There should be no secrets in a marriage. One other piece of advice.....for the woman: Let the little sh*t slide! Don't become a bitter, old nag.
Chemistry, respect, commonalities, friendship, comfort, good conflict-resolution, trust, happiness, same maturity despite age, cultural similarities, families like each other, positive outlook on life, willing to love the person unconditionally from start to finish, in sickness and health. Is that enough?
learn to talk and understand what is important to each other. some things i do not like i let go because it is just how she is and she does the same for me. Example most of the sink and dresser top is covered in junk (her fault i would throw it all out) and i got lots of truck parts somewhat organized but laying out in my yard and under my shed. Just understand each other. Talk about what each wants and is important to them.
rd
Learn to compromise.
Choose the right partner!!!!!
I married a man with an even temperament, and it is such a blessing. He never loses his temper, or is moody.
Marry a man who wants to be married, and to you.
Always treat your partner with respect.
Be affectionate. Talk things through. And always, always, always, talk!!!!
COMMUNICATION is the key!! try to talk about everything even if it seems to be the stupidest thing TALK AND DISCUSS IT!!!
-TRUST
-LOVE
-UNDERSTANDING EACH OTHER...
Communication
Trust
Love
Loyalty
Love making
Closeness
Tenderness
Time together and time apart
Respect of eachothers beleifs etc
honour and protection for eachother
Friendship and much much more
It is definity about compromise!!! you will not always get what you want!!
Why do all you laymen offer medical advice?
I just read a question about an eye problem and the answers were appalling. How can anyone not in the health care field possibly, in good conscience, give health care advice? This guy may lose his eye because he listens to some moron waxing intelligent.Why do all you laymen offer medical advice?
My medical answers always advise them to go to a doctor, but I'll throw in background if I know it.Why do all you laymen offer medical advice?
People do not have to take the advice given to them if they don't want to. They really only want other peoples opinions so that they can explore all options. They usually go to a 'Real Doctor' in the end. At least I hope so!
If you want sound medical advice don't seek it here. This is a place for anyone to pose as anything they want. BTW even health care professionals don't always give good advice.
My medical answers always advise them to go to a doctor, but I'll throw in background if I know it.Why do all you laymen offer medical advice?
People do not have to take the advice given to them if they don't want to. They really only want other peoples opinions so that they can explore all options. They usually go to a 'Real Doctor' in the end. At least I hope so!
If you want sound medical advice don't seek it here. This is a place for anyone to pose as anything they want. BTW even health care professionals don't always give good advice.
Can you please help me by offering advice on writing my story?
I'm writing a story that's written in journal format. (As if the story is happening through someone's Diary or Journal.) My question for you is:
Which should I do? Start off with a normal day in his life before the action? Or start off with the action immeadiately?Can you please help me by offering advice on writing my story?
make sure to write the date. and maybe sign it too.
maybe for the first chapter make it just a normal day. introduce the characters a bit. then for other chapters have awesome stuff in them ^-^
good luck!Can you please help me by offering advice on writing my story?
I would start out with a normal day and give a little background info and insight into your character before jumping into the action. You can explain what your character is feeling like fear or joy. This lets your readers feel like they know your character on a personal level and they will be more emotionally involved when the action starts.
some might say start off with a normal day so the reader understands and gets to know the character, but if you do readers will get bored unless his normal day is something very interesting or if his normal day ends with action.
So my advice would be to go straight into the actions so your reader enjoys straight from the start, so your reader won't know the character, that can be built up in time
Edit- i really don't think you should start with a normal day, i've tried to write those, and read them, your opening pages always need to be engaging, if your reader is bored they will not want to read on, there is no incentive to keep going, no promise of excitement any time soon, normal peoples lives are not what people read
jump right into the action and then maybe have the character remembering certain things about his life prior to the action in the journal, ex'; i remember when i actually thought we had a future. things are so different now between us. her words were so sincere back then, i truly believed she loved me';...just a thought, hope i helped.
Begin with a compelling statement before spending a brief period on the protagonist's normal life. Something that foreshadows the conflict to come.
August 14th, 2007
This was the day I realized many would probably die, my choice was to figure out how to save as many as I can, etc...
You should start with the action. As the story progresses, your narrator can have flashbacks about his/her past life. Just my opinion; your story could work either way, as long as it's well written.
Start out with a normal day. In fact, start out with several normal days. That way, the reader gets to know the character.
i reckon do what the first answer says but have clues or events that lead or link to the action of the story.
Which should I do? Start off with a normal day in his life before the action? Or start off with the action immeadiately?Can you please help me by offering advice on writing my story?
make sure to write the date. and maybe sign it too.
maybe for the first chapter make it just a normal day. introduce the characters a bit. then for other chapters have awesome stuff in them ^-^
good luck!Can you please help me by offering advice on writing my story?
I would start out with a normal day and give a little background info and insight into your character before jumping into the action. You can explain what your character is feeling like fear or joy. This lets your readers feel like they know your character on a personal level and they will be more emotionally involved when the action starts.
some might say start off with a normal day so the reader understands and gets to know the character, but if you do readers will get bored unless his normal day is something very interesting or if his normal day ends with action.
So my advice would be to go straight into the actions so your reader enjoys straight from the start, so your reader won't know the character, that can be built up in time
Edit- i really don't think you should start with a normal day, i've tried to write those, and read them, your opening pages always need to be engaging, if your reader is bored they will not want to read on, there is no incentive to keep going, no promise of excitement any time soon, normal peoples lives are not what people read
jump right into the action and then maybe have the character remembering certain things about his life prior to the action in the journal, ex'; i remember when i actually thought we had a future. things are so different now between us. her words were so sincere back then, i truly believed she loved me';...just a thought, hope i helped.
Begin with a compelling statement before spending a brief period on the protagonist's normal life. Something that foreshadows the conflict to come.
August 14th, 2007
This was the day I realized many would probably die, my choice was to figure out how to save as many as I can, etc...
You should start with the action. As the story progresses, your narrator can have flashbacks about his/her past life. Just my opinion; your story could work either way, as long as it's well written.
Start out with a normal day. In fact, start out with several normal days. That way, the reader gets to know the character.
i reckon do what the first answer says but have clues or events that lead or link to the action of the story.
What is the most important piece of advice that you have passed on to your children?
If you have any doubts about a decision that you are trying to make, do not make that decision unless it is a ';time value'; thing that will not be available unless you decide now. Do not rush into things. If it doesn't feel right, even though you can't identify why it doesn't feel right, don't do it. This will keep them from acting rashly and regretting it later.
Also, some things are just out of your control. You have to learn to ';let it go'; and not worry about things that you have no control over.
This is on a different level from don't drink and drive, don't do drugs, and other things that I assume every parent talks about...What is the most important piece of advice that you have passed on to your children?
Oh yeah. Don't spend too much time on the internet! Haha!!!
What is the most important piece of advice that you have passed on to your children?
Be very careful of people you think you can trust, they are the ones you usually can't. This life is amazing, but hard!
You can't expect your father to be there for you.
Your children are watching the way that you treat your mother, so set a good example for them!
children he em lets see a ok aah wait a minute ok a yes theres your answer heheheh!
If you can't be proud of your actions and stand by them, don't do it.
what children?
learn how to love and respect others!
show me the moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!! LOL well that's what I taught my nephew LOL
Also, some things are just out of your control. You have to learn to ';let it go'; and not worry about things that you have no control over.
This is on a different level from don't drink and drive, don't do drugs, and other things that I assume every parent talks about...What is the most important piece of advice that you have passed on to your children?
Oh yeah. Don't spend too much time on the internet! Haha!!!
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What is the most important piece of advice that you have passed on to your children?
Be very careful of people you think you can trust, they are the ones you usually can't. This life is amazing, but hard!
You can't expect your father to be there for you.
Your children are watching the way that you treat your mother, so set a good example for them!
children he em lets see a ok aah wait a minute ok a yes theres your answer heheheh!
If you can't be proud of your actions and stand by them, don't do it.
what children?
learn how to love and respect others!
show me the moneyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!!!! LOL well that's what I taught my nephew LOL
Can you help me with some dog advice for a new dog owner?
I got a dog! He is 10 months old. So cute, already very attached to me. This is part of my problem. I have only had him for 3 days and already he goes so nuts when he sees me after just even 5 minutes of being out of the ROOM that he'll jump around and flip out. Sometimes he even wets himself a little. I know that this is anxiety, how to help it?Can you help me with some dog advice for a new dog owner?
This is puppy all the way! Ignore him when you walk into a room, do not even look at him. Once he's calm and quiet, then gently acknowledge him with a pat and a few kind words. He will learn that is that behavior you desire. Have fun!Can you help me with some dog advice for a new dog owner?
Welcome to world of the new dog owner. Your dog's reaction is normal and healthy! Dogs are pack animals and as the leader of your dogs 'pack', he is just excited to see you. He will eventually calm down the longer he is with you. You can be stern but go easy on it as you don't want to curb some of his enthusiasm. Go slow and have fun!
if you acknowledge puppy, don't talk baby talk.... soft voice, firm if needed. after a while he'll grow out of this.....
the wetting is just excitement in seeing you.... our mini dachsund does this occasionally.
Be Blessed!
Just ignore him when he is going nuts and praise him when he is calm, also give him lots of exercise. A tired puppy is a good puppy!preventing blackheads
This is puppy all the way! Ignore him when you walk into a room, do not even look at him. Once he's calm and quiet, then gently acknowledge him with a pat and a few kind words. He will learn that is that behavior you desire. Have fun!Can you help me with some dog advice for a new dog owner?
Welcome to world of the new dog owner. Your dog's reaction is normal and healthy! Dogs are pack animals and as the leader of your dogs 'pack', he is just excited to see you. He will eventually calm down the longer he is with you. You can be stern but go easy on it as you don't want to curb some of his enthusiasm. Go slow and have fun!
if you acknowledge puppy, don't talk baby talk.... soft voice, firm if needed. after a while he'll grow out of this.....
the wetting is just excitement in seeing you.... our mini dachsund does this occasionally.
Be Blessed!
Just ignore him when he is going nuts and praise him when he is calm, also give him lots of exercise. A tired puppy is a good puppy!
Do you need certification in the state of Missouri to give HOLISTIC and ALTERNATIVE medicine advice?
I know most holistic medical practicioners are at least certified in pharmeceuticals or as a CNA or something. But my ultimate goal is to open my own natural food and health store. What certificates and vocational skills would make me the most credible?Do you need certification in the state of Missouri to give HOLISTIC and ALTERNATIVE medicine advice?
If you charge for it, you must be licensed by the state. If you intend to enter the retail market, you also need tax certificates - you will have to charge customers sales taxes and remit them. Missouri is one of the less demanding states for business licenses - yet you still have to have it. Your best bet is to consult with other, established merchants who provide the same services and products you intend to offer. Start by contacting your local Rotary and asking who in your area does that...then visit this person(s) and ask if they can offer you some guidance.
It probably wouldn't hurt to take a class in business law at your local community college or university...Do you need certification in the state of Missouri to give HOLISTIC and ALTERNATIVE medicine advice?
well if you're gonna practice acupuncture/pressure or herbal nutrition, then you do need a certification. But if you're just gonna open a natural health store then I'm sure you're prolly not gonna need a certification besides the store and retail licenses and whatnot
If you charge for it, you must be licensed by the state. If you intend to enter the retail market, you also need tax certificates - you will have to charge customers sales taxes and remit them. Missouri is one of the less demanding states for business licenses - yet you still have to have it. Your best bet is to consult with other, established merchants who provide the same services and products you intend to offer. Start by contacting your local Rotary and asking who in your area does that...then visit this person(s) and ask if they can offer you some guidance.
It probably wouldn't hurt to take a class in business law at your local community college or university...Do you need certification in the state of Missouri to give HOLISTIC and ALTERNATIVE medicine advice?
well if you're gonna practice acupuncture/pressure or herbal nutrition, then you do need a certification. But if you're just gonna open a natural health store then I'm sure you're prolly not gonna need a certification besides the store and retail licenses and whatnot
How Do you get emotional help and advice when you don't trust anyone?
it's not good to keep your feelings bottled up so who do you run to?How Do you get emotional help and advice when you don't trust anyone?
Well, trust on a long term basis certainly should be earned. If one is of the spiritual nature of course they have an avenue that does not include the human element. If not, then one needs to use their brain and judge what is said to them, i.e., does this make sense to me?
Looking for help and not trusting anyone is sort of like looking for a corner in a round room. Everyone from time to time needs assistance whether they want to admit it or not. There is nothing wrong in trusting someone for advice because after all---that is what it is---only advice.How Do you get emotional help and advice when you don't trust anyone?
You have to open up and let your instincts be your guide. It is hard to trust a lot of people but there are honest ones who want to help you just have to feel which one is B.S. and which one is there for you.
ask people on yahoo answers..?
oh my gosh I can totally relate!
I just ask people on Y/A
cuz what else can I do?
so that's what I do
music also helps
I think you should start a journal write EVERYTHING you feel and then professional help let them see your notes. I do that most of the time different case though.
your creator............a stranger ...........a professional..therapist.........oh you know what? maybe you could visit nursing homes and talk to the women there........theyve lived and learned and would be more than happy to talk to you
You talk to someone who has no interest in your situation.
A ';disinterested party'; if you want a technical term.
This could be a psychologist, a clergyman (possibly from a church Other than the one you attend...) an advice columnist, or a doctor.
These are people who can and will give you objective advice- there is nothing in it for them if they just tell you what they think you want to hear.
self talk
Seek unbiased help from a professional whom has no personal interest invested.
You look for people you can relate to and hopefully you will find someone who is true to themselves. It's really hard to find those people. The only people I can turn to are my parents. I'm sorry and I would love to talk to you on a personal level. Please read my email! I've been looking for someone to talk to!
I am not trying to get religious on you or anything, but what some people fail to realize is that we all are created for God and when we leave Him out of out lives we suffer, and no one can help us really accept Him. I am not telling to go to Him I am just letting you know some of our troubles comes to us because we willingly reject Him. And the only one you can trust is God, but that is a decision you would have to make.
Well, trust on a long term basis certainly should be earned. If one is of the spiritual nature of course they have an avenue that does not include the human element. If not, then one needs to use their brain and judge what is said to them, i.e., does this make sense to me?
Looking for help and not trusting anyone is sort of like looking for a corner in a round room. Everyone from time to time needs assistance whether they want to admit it or not. There is nothing wrong in trusting someone for advice because after all---that is what it is---only advice.How Do you get emotional help and advice when you don't trust anyone?
You have to open up and let your instincts be your guide. It is hard to trust a lot of people but there are honest ones who want to help you just have to feel which one is B.S. and which one is there for you.
ask people on yahoo answers..?
oh my gosh I can totally relate!
I just ask people on Y/A
cuz what else can I do?
so that's what I do
music also helps
I think you should start a journal write EVERYTHING you feel and then professional help let them see your notes. I do that most of the time different case though.
your creator............a stranger ...........a professional..therapist.........oh you know what? maybe you could visit nursing homes and talk to the women there........theyve lived and learned and would be more than happy to talk to you
You talk to someone who has no interest in your situation.
A ';disinterested party'; if you want a technical term.
This could be a psychologist, a clergyman (possibly from a church Other than the one you attend...) an advice columnist, or a doctor.
These are people who can and will give you objective advice- there is nothing in it for them if they just tell you what they think you want to hear.
self talk
Seek unbiased help from a professional whom has no personal interest invested.
You look for people you can relate to and hopefully you will find someone who is true to themselves. It's really hard to find those people. The only people I can turn to are my parents. I'm sorry and I would love to talk to you on a personal level. Please read my email! I've been looking for someone to talk to!
I am not trying to get religious on you or anything, but what some people fail to realize is that we all are created for God and when we leave Him out of out lives we suffer, and no one can help us really accept Him. I am not telling to go to Him I am just letting you know some of our troubles comes to us because we willingly reject Him. And the only one you can trust is God, but that is a decision you would have to make.
I want to buy a bird for a pet, can you give me any advice?
I have been a long time bird person, and I have now decided to buy myself a pet bird. I want something beautiful, and something to too small. I really like the macaws, but they are way way out of my price range. I am looking to spend around $150 for the bird, cage, and all. Can you give me advice on what I can get for that price and what would be best for a first time bird owner?I want to buy a bird for a pet, can you give me any advice?
You aren't going to get a bird, cage and all for that price. Cages alone cost that ammount for any decent size cage. Birds start at $20 for a budgie and go up from there. You will need food, cuttlebone, at least 5 toys, various kinds of perches, not just the dowel ones, and money set aside for a well bird exam at a local avian vet.
Start up costs for a less costly bird $250 and under will run around $800 for everything.I want to buy a bird for a pet, can you give me any advice?
Well from my experience since i own two parrots i own a blue and gold macaw and a orange winged amazon they need alot of attention. Since you want a small parrot or bird you can probably get a Green-Cheeked Conure. Cage requirements for a Green Cheek are easy. They do not require a large cage, just be cautious of the bar spacing so that it is not too wide for them. 22'; x 24'; with 5/8'; or 3/4'; bar spacing is recommended. Shredder toys will be appreciated, those that have string, small beads, etc. on them. A healthy diet of pellets, some nuts and seeds, fresh vegetables and fruit, all will be enjoyed by this little power house. This parrot comes costing around 200$. They are quiet loving parrots. They love being outside of their cage and love spending time with their owners. They can also be taught to speak. It might take a little bit of patients at first but as soon as you spend time with them you will fall in love with your bird/parrot. =]
Well i would reckomend Budgies they make very good pets if hand trained at quite a young age and some budgies can be taught to talk. Males are usually friendlier than female as females have a nastier bite and tend to be more bitey and scratchy. I've had budgies since i was 8 and i have really enjoyed playing with them. My first budgie was a male and my mum and i trained him and he turned out very friendly . The cage which was the size for 1 budgie only and him costed about $100 NZ. Budgies are also VERY good first time bird owners!
Well I have had many birds I now have a cockatoo. If your only looking to spend 150 on a cage than you shouldn't get any thing bigger than an cockateal witch are great birds an can even learn to say a few words . Sun conards are also neat little guys. Just remember birds are very fragile with allot of cleaners and smoke and must be kept very clean by the time you notice they are sick its usually to late. Good luck!! you might want to visit some bird farms an breeders talk to them an meet diff breeds. Try to stay away from pet stores...
Get a parakeet because they are not so loud. They are small and you can train them.. Just in the first few days, don't try to take it out because it needs to get used to its cage... And dont make any noise on the first few days so they don't freak out.
Good luck!!
well one thing is do u have any non stick cookware? well if soo this is harmful to the birds. also if you want something little i would recomend the parakeet. nd if u wnt something a lil bigger i recommed the cockatiel in which i have i purchased her at petsmart for $75.. Great pets but need alot of attention..
I say go for a love bird. They do comand lots of interaction from you, if you do not have the time to play with your bird daily, then I recommend getting 2. If you dont want lovebirds I say go for a cockatiel
a budgie. they are easy to take care if, they wont smell if you take care of them. and do some reaserch before you get one.
wait intil you have a better budjet to afford suitable living conditions i would reccomend a lovebird
You aren't going to get a bird, cage and all for that price. Cages alone cost that ammount for any decent size cage. Birds start at $20 for a budgie and go up from there. You will need food, cuttlebone, at least 5 toys, various kinds of perches, not just the dowel ones, and money set aside for a well bird exam at a local avian vet.
Start up costs for a less costly bird $250 and under will run around $800 for everything.I want to buy a bird for a pet, can you give me any advice?
Well from my experience since i own two parrots i own a blue and gold macaw and a orange winged amazon they need alot of attention. Since you want a small parrot or bird you can probably get a Green-Cheeked Conure. Cage requirements for a Green Cheek are easy. They do not require a large cage, just be cautious of the bar spacing so that it is not too wide for them. 22'; x 24'; with 5/8'; or 3/4'; bar spacing is recommended. Shredder toys will be appreciated, those that have string, small beads, etc. on them. A healthy diet of pellets, some nuts and seeds, fresh vegetables and fruit, all will be enjoyed by this little power house. This parrot comes costing around 200$. They are quiet loving parrots. They love being outside of their cage and love spending time with their owners. They can also be taught to speak. It might take a little bit of patients at first but as soon as you spend time with them you will fall in love with your bird/parrot. =]
Well i would reckomend Budgies they make very good pets if hand trained at quite a young age and some budgies can be taught to talk. Males are usually friendlier than female as females have a nastier bite and tend to be more bitey and scratchy. I've had budgies since i was 8 and i have really enjoyed playing with them. My first budgie was a male and my mum and i trained him and he turned out very friendly . The cage which was the size for 1 budgie only and him costed about $100 NZ. Budgies are also VERY good first time bird owners!
Well I have had many birds I now have a cockatoo. If your only looking to spend 150 on a cage than you shouldn't get any thing bigger than an cockateal witch are great birds an can even learn to say a few words . Sun conards are also neat little guys. Just remember birds are very fragile with allot of cleaners and smoke and must be kept very clean by the time you notice they are sick its usually to late. Good luck!! you might want to visit some bird farms an breeders talk to them an meet diff breeds. Try to stay away from pet stores...
Get a parakeet because they are not so loud. They are small and you can train them.. Just in the first few days, don't try to take it out because it needs to get used to its cage... And dont make any noise on the first few days so they don't freak out.
Good luck!!
well one thing is do u have any non stick cookware? well if soo this is harmful to the birds. also if you want something little i would recomend the parakeet. nd if u wnt something a lil bigger i recommed the cockatiel in which i have i purchased her at petsmart for $75.. Great pets but need alot of attention..
I say go for a love bird. They do comand lots of interaction from you, if you do not have the time to play with your bird daily, then I recommend getting 2. If you dont want lovebirds I say go for a cockatiel
a budgie. they are easy to take care if, they wont smell if you take care of them. and do some reaserch before you get one.
wait intil you have a better budjet to afford suitable living conditions i would reccomend a lovebird
What percentage of people do you think are actually seeking sound advice when asking Yahoo questions?
I have tried to give well thought out answers to help people solve their problems only to have them choose the least intellegent answer from the pack. Its not that I think mine are the very best but it looks like in many cases the asker never intended to choose a decent answer. Are you guys running into this? Am I mistaken and this forum is largely for pure fun? Maybe this forum should be divided in two parts? Your thoughts and observations will be appreciated.What percentage of people do you think are actually seeking sound advice when asking Yahoo questions?
I know its flipping annoying isn't it? I spend a long time thinking out helpful answers and then a best answer is picked when it is totally stupid. I think this form is a mix of people trying to help (like you and me) and people who are just taking the p**s.
Still we keep trying don't we?! If I help at least one person then it is worth it.What percentage of people do you think are actually seeking sound advice when asking Yahoo questions?
i have noticed that too. i think more than half the people are just killing time.
I would think it's rather a small percentage, most questions can be answered easily with a search engine.
I think most people just want to post for fun, get opinions etc.
About 1.5% of the questions actually seem to have serious or pertinent intent to anything. The forum seems to be what it is by whom participates. To me most apparently serious questions are usually someones agenda and most of the over 50% questions and answers are just playing around waste of time below the second grade level of competence. Recommendation: Since it easy to waste time here be careful, because your time is worth allot more than just to be trivialized and your painstaking answers to be spat and stomped on like you are an idiot. Good luck with Yahoo! answers.
I know its flipping annoying isn't it? I spend a long time thinking out helpful answers and then a best answer is picked when it is totally stupid. I think this form is a mix of people trying to help (like you and me) and people who are just taking the p**s.
Still we keep trying don't we?! If I help at least one person then it is worth it.What percentage of people do you think are actually seeking sound advice when asking Yahoo questions?
i have noticed that too. i think more than half the people are just killing time.
I would think it's rather a small percentage, most questions can be answered easily with a search engine.
I think most people just want to post for fun, get opinions etc.
About 1.5% of the questions actually seem to have serious or pertinent intent to anything. The forum seems to be what it is by whom participates. To me most apparently serious questions are usually someones agenda and most of the over 50% questions and answers are just playing around waste of time below the second grade level of competence. Recommendation: Since it easy to waste time here be careful, because your time is worth allot more than just to be trivialized and your painstaking answers to be spat and stomped on like you are an idiot. Good luck with Yahoo! answers.
Can you offer any advice on moving to Chicago?
Hi - I am a young professional female moving to Chicago from the east coast. I will be working downtown. Any advice is greatly appreciated!
Specifically - I'd like to know if I will need a car, what area's I should look into / avoid, how I can find stellar roommates!
Thanks.Can you offer any advice on moving to Chicago?
Hi i am also in the collar counties. Choose a reasonable walking distance to ur work. Like if you work downtown mostly you will choose to live on LSD (Lake Shore Drive). Trust me don't buy anything in Chicago! Sales tax 10.5%, Parking stickers, and finally the traffic. The areas that are nice is Lake Front ,Lincoln Park, and Hyde Park. Those are nice places to like but pricey. So I will suggest go to the collar counties. It the collar counties are nice such as Dupage, Will, Lake, and Kane counties. I will suggest Dupage since that is one of the richest counties in the United States. If you live in the collar counties i will suggest a car. If in Chicago don't get a car since of the price of gas. It is over 4 dollars. Just take the CTA or just walk. Trust me Chicago is a nice city. Remember take caution of the south side. Welcome to Chicago!Can you offer any advice on moving to Chicago?
Welcome to Chicago. It's a great city for young professionals. Even though you're working downtown, you may still want a car depending on which neighborhood you decide to live in. Some have more amenities around them than others, so having a car can make your life a lot easier on the weekends sometimes.
Check out the Chicago Reader for apartment listings. When I moved to the city, I used a service called the Apartment People which was great. You basically tell them what you're looking for and they will take you out and show you available rentals in their database.
As for where to live, Lakeview and Lincoln Park tend to be the most popular with young professionals. I'd also check out Andersonville, which is a little further north and a little less expensive. If you want to be really close to downtown, the West Loop and South Loop are good choices. If you're kind of artsy or funky, you'd like Bucktown and Wicker Park.
There's a website called LiveHereChicago.com that has a lot of good information about moving to Chicago, neighborhoods, if you need a car, etc. You should check it out.
downtown your best bet is the goldcoast, its really expensive but you can find something ok and thats where everything is. stay away from the west and south sides. north sides great as well. you really wont need a car because theres public transportation everywhere and you can walk to everything. lincoln park even sounds good. its reasonable and a pretty sweet area. good luck.
Rooomates are hit or miss. You might want to find a month to month rent and not bring all your stuff out yet and maybe try to meet some people at work who may be looking for a roomate.
As for areas you could live in the city, you could also live in the burbs and take the train which is what I do.
You don't NEED a car, but it comes in handy. First off, will you have a placde to park it? That is, does the place where you will be staying have a garage or ample street parking? That is important. I mean, you could park it on the street, but that takes a lot of effort, driving around looking for an empty space, feeding the parking meter if you have to (they usually have to be paid up until 9 p.m. in most place), moving the car early in the morning if you parked in front of a meter overnight, moving your car off the street on street cleaning days, etc. Lots of stuff to consider. And then, as others have said, you have to have a license plate, a state license sticker and a city sticker. The state sticker and the city sticker will both run you more $70. If you have an out of state sticker or plates that are valid, you don't have to worry about the city stuff, But if your out of state sticker expires, they'll start piling the parking ticekts on there. Parking tickets can range from $25 and up and if you get three or more, they can slap a boot on your car. Then you have to pay to remove the boot, pay for whatever tickets you've piled up, pay the towing charge (if they tow your car before you pay to get the boot off) and pay for each day it's in the pound. Trust me, that can add up to A LOT. Oh, and you have to have insurance.
That being said, a car can still be handy. I have a car and other than the yearly city and state stickers, I just pay for insurance (Ok, as well as gas and the other regular up keep). I know when to move my car on street cleaning days, make sure my meter doesn't run out and make sure I move it in the morning before I go to work if it's parked in front of a meter. I have the option of indoor parking where I live and I'm thinking of that (it's an extra $100 a month), but as of now I'm fine.
The car comes in handy when you want to do things like go to the grocery store (if you have to go several blocks it's a pain in the a** to drag five or six bags back to your place in those plastic bags, especially in freezing winter!), when you have to go all the way across town and you know that you won't be home until late and the thought of riding a bus or the el train all the way back makes you ill, if you occasionally want to take a long drive on a nice summer weekend down Lake Shore Drive or a quick trip to a place like the Botanic Gardens in Glencoe; not really far away, but far enough away where taking a bus is a hassel; or picking up friends from the airport, train station etc.
There is another option if you need a car. We have a car sharing program here called iGo. It's sort of like car rental. There are spots around the city where iGo cars are stored. You put in a request for a car for a certain time and go pick it up. You set the amount of time you'll need it ahead of time. If you find you might need it longer, you can call and request extra time. It's convenient, but I personally like having my own car when I need it for as long as I need it.
Anyway, I guess it's up to you. Like I said, you don't need a car, but it can come in handy.
As far as areas, you're probably going to get steered into the Lakeview/Lincoln Park area. It's jammed with ';young professionals';, but I would advice you to explore a little further into areas like Edgewater and Andersonville, as well as Ravenswood, Roscoe Village and the St. Ben's area. They are a little further away from downtown but not hard to get there.
Can't really help you with roommates. Never had one.
Specifically - I'd like to know if I will need a car, what area's I should look into / avoid, how I can find stellar roommates!
Thanks.Can you offer any advice on moving to Chicago?
Hi i am also in the collar counties. Choose a reasonable walking distance to ur work. Like if you work downtown mostly you will choose to live on LSD (Lake Shore Drive). Trust me don't buy anything in Chicago! Sales tax 10.5%, Parking stickers, and finally the traffic. The areas that are nice is Lake Front ,Lincoln Park, and Hyde Park. Those are nice places to like but pricey. So I will suggest go to the collar counties. It the collar counties are nice such as Dupage, Will, Lake, and Kane counties. I will suggest Dupage since that is one of the richest counties in the United States. If you live in the collar counties i will suggest a car. If in Chicago don't get a car since of the price of gas. It is over 4 dollars. Just take the CTA or just walk. Trust me Chicago is a nice city. Remember take caution of the south side. Welcome to Chicago!Can you offer any advice on moving to Chicago?
Welcome to Chicago. It's a great city for young professionals. Even though you're working downtown, you may still want a car depending on which neighborhood you decide to live in. Some have more amenities around them than others, so having a car can make your life a lot easier on the weekends sometimes.
Check out the Chicago Reader for apartment listings. When I moved to the city, I used a service called the Apartment People which was great. You basically tell them what you're looking for and they will take you out and show you available rentals in their database.
As for where to live, Lakeview and Lincoln Park tend to be the most popular with young professionals. I'd also check out Andersonville, which is a little further north and a little less expensive. If you want to be really close to downtown, the West Loop and South Loop are good choices. If you're kind of artsy or funky, you'd like Bucktown and Wicker Park.
There's a website called LiveHereChicago.com that has a lot of good information about moving to Chicago, neighborhoods, if you need a car, etc. You should check it out.
downtown your best bet is the goldcoast, its really expensive but you can find something ok and thats where everything is. stay away from the west and south sides. north sides great as well. you really wont need a car because theres public transportation everywhere and you can walk to everything. lincoln park even sounds good. its reasonable and a pretty sweet area. good luck.
Rooomates are hit or miss. You might want to find a month to month rent and not bring all your stuff out yet and maybe try to meet some people at work who may be looking for a roomate.
As for areas you could live in the city, you could also live in the burbs and take the train which is what I do.
You don't NEED a car, but it comes in handy. First off, will you have a placde to park it? That is, does the place where you will be staying have a garage or ample street parking? That is important. I mean, you could park it on the street, but that takes a lot of effort, driving around looking for an empty space, feeding the parking meter if you have to (they usually have to be paid up until 9 p.m. in most place), moving the car early in the morning if you parked in front of a meter overnight, moving your car off the street on street cleaning days, etc. Lots of stuff to consider. And then, as others have said, you have to have a license plate, a state license sticker and a city sticker. The state sticker and the city sticker will both run you more $70. If you have an out of state sticker or plates that are valid, you don't have to worry about the city stuff, But if your out of state sticker expires, they'll start piling the parking ticekts on there. Parking tickets can range from $25 and up and if you get three or more, they can slap a boot on your car. Then you have to pay to remove the boot, pay for whatever tickets you've piled up, pay the towing charge (if they tow your car before you pay to get the boot off) and pay for each day it's in the pound. Trust me, that can add up to A LOT. Oh, and you have to have insurance.
That being said, a car can still be handy. I have a car and other than the yearly city and state stickers, I just pay for insurance (Ok, as well as gas and the other regular up keep). I know when to move my car on street cleaning days, make sure my meter doesn't run out and make sure I move it in the morning before I go to work if it's parked in front of a meter. I have the option of indoor parking where I live and I'm thinking of that (it's an extra $100 a month), but as of now I'm fine.
The car comes in handy when you want to do things like go to the grocery store (if you have to go several blocks it's a pain in the a** to drag five or six bags back to your place in those plastic bags, especially in freezing winter!), when you have to go all the way across town and you know that you won't be home until late and the thought of riding a bus or the el train all the way back makes you ill, if you occasionally want to take a long drive on a nice summer weekend down Lake Shore Drive or a quick trip to a place like the Botanic Gardens in Glencoe; not really far away, but far enough away where taking a bus is a hassel; or picking up friends from the airport, train station etc.
There is another option if you need a car. We have a car sharing program here called iGo. It's sort of like car rental. There are spots around the city where iGo cars are stored. You put in a request for a car for a certain time and go pick it up. You set the amount of time you'll need it ahead of time. If you find you might need it longer, you can call and request extra time. It's convenient, but I personally like having my own car when I need it for as long as I need it.
Anyway, I guess it's up to you. Like I said, you don't need a car, but it can come in handy.
As far as areas, you're probably going to get steered into the Lakeview/Lincoln Park area. It's jammed with ';young professionals';, but I would advice you to explore a little further into areas like Edgewater and Andersonville, as well as Ravenswood, Roscoe Village and the St. Ben's area. They are a little further away from downtown but not hard to get there.
Can't really help you with roommates. Never had one.
How much do you advice to buy these cars?
1. Toyota Rav4 '08
2. Toyota Highlander '08
3. Toyota Venza '09
Assuming you have $2000 down and a fairly good credit. In other words, how much will you finance and not feel cheated. Or how much will you buy cash and not feel cheated.
Thanks for your adviceHow much do you advice to buy these cars?
you need to first research kbb.com to see the blue book on the 08 models and the 09 Venza, negotiate, negotiate! Dealers are looking to sell, sell right now...it's the buyer's market.
with regards to some unbiased advice, i found a good website that hits on private financing or dealer financing and some negotiation tips. check it out, hope it helps!preventing blackheads
2. Toyota Highlander '08
3. Toyota Venza '09
Assuming you have $2000 down and a fairly good credit. In other words, how much will you finance and not feel cheated. Or how much will you buy cash and not feel cheated.
Thanks for your adviceHow much do you advice to buy these cars?
you need to first research kbb.com to see the blue book on the 08 models and the 09 Venza, negotiate, negotiate! Dealers are looking to sell, sell right now...it's the buyer's market.
with regards to some unbiased advice, i found a good website that hits on private financing or dealer financing and some negotiation tips. check it out, hope it helps!
What is the worst advice your mother gave you?
What is the worst advice from your own mother you've received?What is the worst advice your mother gave you?
My mother wasn't very open about sex, infact, my birds and the bees talk consisted of ';you know how babies are made don't you? He puts his ';thing'; in her ';thing';,'; - and there you have it - sex education in a nutshell. Marvellous!What is the worst advice your mother gave you?
I agree with Blue Eyes. My mother used to tell me to walk away and I grew up avoiding conflict at all costs and never learned how to stand up for myself. It affects me to this day but has gotten a lot better because I joined the military and gained a lot of confidence in myself and my own abilities.
I don't know where to start..
(This isn't the bad advice, just to the other answers) I always had the advice if someone punch me, to fight back. Later if someone is about to hit you, you swing first.
I don't know where to start though, parents usually don't give to much ';good advice';.
Honestly its how to discipline. Disciplining techniques vary a little or a lot from person to person. How she would discipline my daughter, I NEVER would. I know spanking was ok back in the day but I will not hit my kid, I use the time out strategy and that works for me. This and other minial discipling techniques that I just dont like. And it gets on my nerves when she tells me how the food I feed her is soooo bad compared to her ';from scratch'; homemade cooking. All I can say is whatever. She had her chance to be a parent, now it's mine.
';He's much to little to be drinking out of a sippy cup'; My son at 5 months who was breast fed, she gave him a bottle behind my back. He got so hooked I finally let him cry it out at 28 months.
I honestly can't think of any at the moment. My mom gives awesome advice. I'm still a teen, but even when I'm a parent I don't think she'll second guess me or give me bad advice. She's great.
well once in highschool I had a boyfriend hit me so I told her I was going to dump him and she told me ';you'll regret that';
Stay away from sex and drugs.
Take the Bears and the points. Lost big on that one. Thanks mom!
'when some one starts a fight with you, walk away'
blue eyes got it right on!
That is what my mom would tell me, but it never taught me to stand up for myself.
My mother wasn't very open about sex, infact, my birds and the bees talk consisted of ';you know how babies are made don't you? He puts his ';thing'; in her ';thing';,'; - and there you have it - sex education in a nutshell. Marvellous!What is the worst advice your mother gave you?
I agree with Blue Eyes. My mother used to tell me to walk away and I grew up avoiding conflict at all costs and never learned how to stand up for myself. It affects me to this day but has gotten a lot better because I joined the military and gained a lot of confidence in myself and my own abilities.
I don't know where to start..
(This isn't the bad advice, just to the other answers) I always had the advice if someone punch me, to fight back. Later if someone is about to hit you, you swing first.
I don't know where to start though, parents usually don't give to much ';good advice';.
Honestly its how to discipline. Disciplining techniques vary a little or a lot from person to person. How she would discipline my daughter, I NEVER would. I know spanking was ok back in the day but I will not hit my kid, I use the time out strategy and that works for me. This and other minial discipling techniques that I just dont like. And it gets on my nerves when she tells me how the food I feed her is soooo bad compared to her ';from scratch'; homemade cooking. All I can say is whatever. She had her chance to be a parent, now it's mine.
';He's much to little to be drinking out of a sippy cup'; My son at 5 months who was breast fed, she gave him a bottle behind my back. He got so hooked I finally let him cry it out at 28 months.
I honestly can't think of any at the moment. My mom gives awesome advice. I'm still a teen, but even when I'm a parent I don't think she'll second guess me or give me bad advice. She's great.
well once in highschool I had a boyfriend hit me so I told her I was going to dump him and she told me ';you'll regret that';
Stay away from sex and drugs.
Take the Bears and the points. Lost big on that one. Thanks mom!
'when some one starts a fight with you, walk away'
blue eyes got it right on!
That is what my mom would tell me, but it never taught me to stand up for myself.
What is love to you and what is one piece of advice you can give for relationships?
I am doing a project for psychology and I need the following information: 1 - What is love (to you) 2 - What is one piece of advice you can give for a relationship? I need this information from each of the following age groups so please state which you apply to: (14-19) (20-29) (30-55) (55+). In addition, if you wouldn't mind stating your gender, that would benefit my project as well. This information be kept anonymous. Thanks!What is love to you and what is one piece of advice you can give for relationships?
i am 14-19 and i am a male. love to me is something that bonds you with another person. you cant buy it or anything like that. Love is a state when you just feel like doing anything for a person. some advice i would give is that the most important thing in a relationship is trust.What is love to you and what is one piece of advice you can give for relationships?
1. As I've never been in love, I'll take this from what I think it is, or should be. Having a feeling that everything is OK in the world, even if it's not, you have someone you can always depend on and they won't judge you, will listen, be loyal. Unlike some though, I don't think there is one person out there for everyone. I just think some are fortunate to find someone they fit well with. I myself don't believe I have someone out there.
2. Piece of advice? Don't rush into something just for the fun of it. Take time to get to know one another. Don't be jealous. Jealousy is a horrible thing. Be loyal and trustful. You can't base a relationship off of lies. And most importantly, don't take each other for granted because you never know when it could all be over.
I am female, and in the age group, 20-29.
If you feel that sinking feeling coming on that means your relationship is on the rocks, now may be a good time to re-examine your relationship with your loved one. There are several steps you can take to put you and your partner back on the road to recovery.
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[edit] StepsDecide if it is worth it. It is a sad fact about life, but some relationships may happen to be too far gone to save. Therefore, take some time to really think about the relationship. Find out the real cause of the conflict or breakup. Is it your fault or your partner's fault? If you are in an abusive relationship, physically or emotionally, it may be best to leave and find a fresh start. If not, you must be willing to take on the following steps with a passion. If at the end of the day you still think that the relationship is worth saving, then go all out to save it.
Pinpoint the problem. It is hard to fix a relationship when you do not know what went wrong. Talk to your partner to see if they are willing to try a problem-solving method known as ';Plus Delta';. If he or she is willing, take some quiet time out of your day where you two can do the following:
Each person needs a piece of paper folded length-wise into thirds.
Label the first column ';plus';, the second column ';minus';, and the third column ';delta';.
In the plus column, each of you must write several things that you personally find to be good in your relationship. Ex. ';our walks in the park'; or ';the way we wake each other up when we have a bad dream';
In the minus column, individually write what you each think are some negative aspects of your relationship. Ex. ';how we resort to screaming when angry'; or ';our lack of communication during arguments';.
Delta is a term used in math and science that means ';change in';. You should use this column to identify specific changes that you wish to make in your relationship. This can mean doing less of one thing or doing more of another thing. Ex. ';more cuddle time while watching T.V.';or ';planning special dinner dates'; or ';more daily communication';.
Share your thoughts. It is important that these thoughts are not shared in an angry or argumentative way. You should hold each other's hand while sharing your thoughts or cuddle up together. It may feel awkward to do this if you have been fighting a lot lately, but it can make a difference.
Listen. When your partner is talking, do not interrupt them to ';counter'; what they said or to defend yourself. Keep in mind that if they wrote something down under the minus column, it is because it is truly hurting or worrying them. Whether their feelings seem rational or not, it is important to respect them.
Take action. Try to identify some of the most important problems on each other's list and find a way to fix the situation. For example, if communication was a big problem, make it a point to talk to each other for twenty minutes each day without the T.V., radio, or computer on.
Maintain your progress. Be sure to apologize for hurting each other's feelings and repeat the process as often as needed.
[edit] TipsOften the best way to fix problems is to not verbalise it but just do what you know will help. That is, don't approach your partner and say ';We have problems, let's discuss and sort it out.'; Just make an effort first without saying so. People often feel more upset when they have to face the fact that the two of you have been having problems.
Showing affection and love only helps.
After the first ';Plus Delta'; exercise, it may be more convenient to try the method verbally. Just remember to remain respectful.
If you repeat the exercise on paper, you can put the old papers into a binder to look at them later as a memento to your progress.
You can use this method to repair relationships with informal co-workers, friends, and family members. You can, of course, leave out the physical contact and replace with just a quite, restful environment.
Agree to keep your ';Plus Delta'; exercises private.
[edit] WarningsNever force anyone to try something that they do not want to try.
This method may not work on all types of relationships.
The other party may not be ready or willing to save the relationship.
i am 14-19 and i am a male. love to me is something that bonds you with another person. you cant buy it or anything like that. Love is a state when you just feel like doing anything for a person. some advice i would give is that the most important thing in a relationship is trust.What is love to you and what is one piece of advice you can give for relationships?
1. As I've never been in love, I'll take this from what I think it is, or should be. Having a feeling that everything is OK in the world, even if it's not, you have someone you can always depend on and they won't judge you, will listen, be loyal. Unlike some though, I don't think there is one person out there for everyone. I just think some are fortunate to find someone they fit well with. I myself don't believe I have someone out there.
2. Piece of advice? Don't rush into something just for the fun of it. Take time to get to know one another. Don't be jealous. Jealousy is a horrible thing. Be loyal and trustful. You can't base a relationship off of lies. And most importantly, don't take each other for granted because you never know when it could all be over.
I am female, and in the age group, 20-29.
If you feel that sinking feeling coming on that means your relationship is on the rocks, now may be a good time to re-examine your relationship with your loved one. There are several steps you can take to put you and your partner back on the road to recovery.
Psychiatric Drug Effects
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[edit] StepsDecide if it is worth it. It is a sad fact about life, but some relationships may happen to be too far gone to save. Therefore, take some time to really think about the relationship. Find out the real cause of the conflict or breakup. Is it your fault or your partner's fault? If you are in an abusive relationship, physically or emotionally, it may be best to leave and find a fresh start. If not, you must be willing to take on the following steps with a passion. If at the end of the day you still think that the relationship is worth saving, then go all out to save it.
Pinpoint the problem. It is hard to fix a relationship when you do not know what went wrong. Talk to your partner to see if they are willing to try a problem-solving method known as ';Plus Delta';. If he or she is willing, take some quiet time out of your day where you two can do the following:
Each person needs a piece of paper folded length-wise into thirds.
Label the first column ';plus';, the second column ';minus';, and the third column ';delta';.
In the plus column, each of you must write several things that you personally find to be good in your relationship. Ex. ';our walks in the park'; or ';the way we wake each other up when we have a bad dream';
In the minus column, individually write what you each think are some negative aspects of your relationship. Ex. ';how we resort to screaming when angry'; or ';our lack of communication during arguments';.
Delta is a term used in math and science that means ';change in';. You should use this column to identify specific changes that you wish to make in your relationship. This can mean doing less of one thing or doing more of another thing. Ex. ';more cuddle time while watching T.V.';or ';planning special dinner dates'; or ';more daily communication';.
Share your thoughts. It is important that these thoughts are not shared in an angry or argumentative way. You should hold each other's hand while sharing your thoughts or cuddle up together. It may feel awkward to do this if you have been fighting a lot lately, but it can make a difference.
Listen. When your partner is talking, do not interrupt them to ';counter'; what they said or to defend yourself. Keep in mind that if they wrote something down under the minus column, it is because it is truly hurting or worrying them. Whether their feelings seem rational or not, it is important to respect them.
Take action. Try to identify some of the most important problems on each other's list and find a way to fix the situation. For example, if communication was a big problem, make it a point to talk to each other for twenty minutes each day without the T.V., radio, or computer on.
Maintain your progress. Be sure to apologize for hurting each other's feelings and repeat the process as often as needed.
[edit] TipsOften the best way to fix problems is to not verbalise it but just do what you know will help. That is, don't approach your partner and say ';We have problems, let's discuss and sort it out.'; Just make an effort first without saying so. People often feel more upset when they have to face the fact that the two of you have been having problems.
Showing affection and love only helps.
After the first ';Plus Delta'; exercise, it may be more convenient to try the method verbally. Just remember to remain respectful.
If you repeat the exercise on paper, you can put the old papers into a binder to look at them later as a memento to your progress.
You can use this method to repair relationships with informal co-workers, friends, and family members. You can, of course, leave out the physical contact and replace with just a quite, restful environment.
Agree to keep your ';Plus Delta'; exercises private.
[edit] WarningsNever force anyone to try something that they do not want to try.
This method may not work on all types of relationships.
The other party may not be ready or willing to save the relationship.
Do you have any advice on how to stop possessive aggressiveness?
American Cocker
Male
14 months old
Neutered
Graduated obedience course
This is a totally new behavior. I have seen it no more then 2 or 3 times but I do want to stop it right now. If he is chewing on a bone or if he found something outside like a pinecone he will growl and charge if a dog tries to smell it (he won't bite of fight but his warning is impressive). He doesn't do that to any humans and not to every dogs either, only to certain dogs.Do you have any advice on how to stop possessive aggressiveness?
If he doesn't do it to humans and is only giving a showy display, I wouldn't worry about it. If there are other dogs around, pick up all the bones or high value toys. If it's over a pine cone at the dog park, the other dogs will just walk away and ignore him, and it shouldn't be a problem. It could be a problem if he steals the ball of another dog that also doesn't like to share his stuff, though. If you have any other questions, remember you can always call your trainer who should know how to help you and knows both you and your dog.Do you have any advice on how to stop possessive aggressiveness?
We had a female that did that. The best choice is to take away all bones and toys for a bit. since he does not do it to ALL humans and dogs you still need to stop it no matter how small or large the behaviour is. you should be able to take a bone or toy at any time from your dog with no hesitation. if you do go to grab the toy and he growls pat him on the nose and say in a stern voice 'No!' this just takes training and patience
good luck
Male
14 months old
Neutered
Graduated obedience course
This is a totally new behavior. I have seen it no more then 2 or 3 times but I do want to stop it right now. If he is chewing on a bone or if he found something outside like a pinecone he will growl and charge if a dog tries to smell it (he won't bite of fight but his warning is impressive). He doesn't do that to any humans and not to every dogs either, only to certain dogs.Do you have any advice on how to stop possessive aggressiveness?
If he doesn't do it to humans and is only giving a showy display, I wouldn't worry about it. If there are other dogs around, pick up all the bones or high value toys. If it's over a pine cone at the dog park, the other dogs will just walk away and ignore him, and it shouldn't be a problem. It could be a problem if he steals the ball of another dog that also doesn't like to share his stuff, though. If you have any other questions, remember you can always call your trainer who should know how to help you and knows both you and your dog.Do you have any advice on how to stop possessive aggressiveness?
We had a female that did that. The best choice is to take away all bones and toys for a bit. since he does not do it to ALL humans and dogs you still need to stop it no matter how small or large the behaviour is. you should be able to take a bone or toy at any time from your dog with no hesitation. if you do go to grab the toy and he growls pat him on the nose and say in a stern voice 'No!' this just takes training and patience
good luck
Do you have any advice/techniques for knitting a fairisle pattern?
Do you really have to tie off and break the yarn when you change colour and then tie it on again when you re-start? Seems very fiddly. I have knitted many things before but this will be my first attempt at a Fairisle pattern. Do you have any tips?Do you have any advice/techniques for knitting a fairisle pattern?
Learn how to weave the colours not in use.On the knit row,if you only have one other colour, hold it on top of your LEFThand finger, put the righthand needle in the stitch as usual, then under the other colour and knit them BOTH off (the second colour does not pass through the stitch). Do this about every 3 or 4 stitches and you will find your work stays flexible and neat. A bit difficult to describe, but well worth learning. When you need the other colour, either switch them over for more than 4 stitches (the first colour is then woven in as before) , or just hook it through with the righthand needle if it's only for one or two stitches. If you have more than one colour, hold them all as above and select as required. The purl side is worked in exactly the same way.
To carry a colour up the side, just slip the righthand needle under it for the first stitch only, as above.
Don't bother with bobbins, cutting off or any newfangled ideas - this is the way it SHOULD be done and is really easy once you've learned it.
Good luck - I'm now 82 years old, and in my teens I used to knit my future husband a new fair-isle pullover every week for a few months. It used to be a talking point in his office on a Monday morning!
Learn how to weave the colours not in use.On the knit row,if you only have one other colour, hold it on top of your LEFThand finger, put the righthand needle in the stitch as usual, then under the other colour and knit them BOTH off (the second colour does not pass through the stitch). Do this about every 3 or 4 stitches and you will find your work stays flexible and neat. A bit difficult to describe, but well worth learning. When you need the other colour, either switch them over for more than 4 stitches (the first colour is then woven in as before) , or just hook it through with the righthand needle if it's only for one or two stitches. If you have more than one colour, hold them all as above and select as required. The purl side is worked in exactly the same way.
To carry a colour up the side, just slip the righthand needle under it for the first stitch only, as above.
Don't bother with bobbins, cutting off or any newfangled ideas - this is the way it SHOULD be done and is really easy once you've learned it.
Good luck - I'm now 82 years old, and in my teens I used to knit my future husband a new fair-isle pullover every week for a few months. It used to be a talking point in his office on a Monday morning!
What's the best advice you could give someone who is planning on joining the Air Force?
What would be the best AFSC to take in your opinion?What's the best advice you could give someone who is planning on joining the Air Force?
I think the best advice I could give is that you tend to get out of the Air Force what you put in.
If I had to do it over again, I would look for an AFSC that played to my strengths and transferred to civilian life. You want to do something that you like and are good at. Eventually, you are going to separate or retire. Some people like to be outside a lot and CE or Aircraft maintenance is right up their alley, some people like working with computers.What's the best advice you could give someone who is planning on joining the Air Force?
It all depends on their ASVAB scores. Supposing they're qualified to take whatever they want, I'd tell them to choose something they really think they will love, and wait for the school to open to take it. You have to do whatever you take for 36 months before you're eligible to retrain, so if you hate it, it can be very unpleasant. I'd also have them look at the civiliain counterparts to their jobs as far as security, pay and advancement go, so their training is useful later. I'd also tell them to make darned sure they completed at least their CCAF Associate's degree while they're in. They're going to need it later.
The best AFSC is the one you both like and have aptitude for.
I liked mine...
Enlisted: Military Intelligence Specialist/Technician (20450/20470)
Commissioned: Psychologist (42P3B) ...actually, I had two AFSCs in this area...primary and secondary.
Good luck with your career.
i would pick a job that you know you will really like and that your good at. you can't quit no matter how much you hate your job.
I think the best advice I could give is that you tend to get out of the Air Force what you put in.
If I had to do it over again, I would look for an AFSC that played to my strengths and transferred to civilian life. You want to do something that you like and are good at. Eventually, you are going to separate or retire. Some people like to be outside a lot and CE or Aircraft maintenance is right up their alley, some people like working with computers.What's the best advice you could give someone who is planning on joining the Air Force?
It all depends on their ASVAB scores. Supposing they're qualified to take whatever they want, I'd tell them to choose something they really think they will love, and wait for the school to open to take it. You have to do whatever you take for 36 months before you're eligible to retrain, so if you hate it, it can be very unpleasant. I'd also have them look at the civiliain counterparts to their jobs as far as security, pay and advancement go, so their training is useful later. I'd also tell them to make darned sure they completed at least their CCAF Associate's degree while they're in. They're going to need it later.
The best AFSC is the one you both like and have aptitude for.
I liked mine...
Enlisted: Military Intelligence Specialist/Technician (20450/20470)
Commissioned: Psychologist (42P3B) ...actually, I had two AFSCs in this area...primary and secondary.
Good luck with your career.
i would pick a job that you know you will really like and that your good at. you can't quit no matter how much you hate your job.
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